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14. I can do one better. A woman, white, late 40s, in my office was laughing at the "joke" her 13-year
Fri Mar 25, 2016, 12:43 AM
Mar 2016

old son had told her the night before.

The joke was something like "why doesn't Liberia have a cricket team? Because they all have ebola." The way that "ebola" was pronounced made it sound like "bowlers" which apparently has something to do with cricket. Lord knows what, as I have absolutely no interest in cricket and couldn't tell you anything about the sport.

This was about 4 months ago, at the height of the ebola crisis. When people, including scores of children, were dying right and left. Instead of pulling her son aside and telling him how his joke was insensitive and incredibly inconsiderate to the plight of thousands of our fellow man, she was actually LAUGHING at that shit and felt the need to tell the whole office about it the next day. After I went and told her about herself, reminded her that these were people that she and her son were laughing at, I think now she'll think again before telling a joke about people dying.

If this had been little tow-headed, blue eyed children, there is no way in hell anyone could convince me that she would have thought it was funny and been encouraging her son to laugh as well.

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Who are we, really? [View all] MrScorpio Mar 2016 OP
Excellent point. xfundy Mar 2016 #1
When the victims are white Coolest Ranger Mar 2016 #2
+1 YoungDemCA Mar 2016 #11
K&R Scuba Mar 2016 #3
K&R ismnotwasm Mar 2016 #4
Yup. Digital Puppy Mar 2016 #5
Millions have died in the eastern Congo .... kwassa Mar 2016 #6
You tell no lies JustAnotherGen Mar 2016 #8
K&R brer cat Mar 2016 #7
Word. n/t Kind of Blue Mar 2016 #9
The direct consequence of seeing black and brown people as less than human YoungDemCA Mar 2016 #10
Human Hierarchy of Value... OneGrassRoot Mar 2016 #17
K&R Quayblue Mar 2016 #12
I can do one better. A woman, white, late 40s, in my office was laughing at the "joke" her 13-year Number23 Mar 2016 #14
unfortunately, you did me one better smh Quayblue Mar 2016 #15
Our language reinforces this absurd indifference toward the lives of non whites. Jackie Wilson Said Mar 2016 #16
What a horrible thing to say. wildeyed Mar 2016 #18
TELL IT. I have been saying the same thing for as long as I can remember Number23 Mar 2016 #13
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