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Behind the Aegis

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22. It is a sad state of affairs.
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 12:52 AM
Mar 2016

What is even sadder is too many, mostly white, think this is a "new" phenomena. It isn't. Sure, we all know about "Jim Crow" and some of the effects after, but what many don't realize is this, the cartoon, has never stopped in this country! NEVER! When I was in middle school, my best friend was African-American. We lived on a military base, so we were surrounded by all types of people. He and I were very good friends, and our parents' 'loved' the other child more; meaning, I could do no wrong in his house, and why couldn't my friend be more like me, and I got the same treatment from my parents. LOL!

One day his family invited me to the movies, I was 12, yeah, I think so, before my Bar Mitzvah, so around that age...so, 1980-1, abouts. It was me, him, his younger sister, with whom I shared a birthday, day not year, and his parents, both of whom had Master's degrees. As we were driving through town, a police car was pulling upside the car. Now, in those days, we used to wave at police officers when they drove by us. My friend's father, without turning around, said; "BTA, do not wave at the officer, but you can smile, then go back to talking to my son." I did as instructed, after all, I was taught to respect my elders. The cop car followed us almost all the way to the movies. When I got home, I asked my mother about the situation. She explained a white child in car driven by a black man could be seen in a bad way. Which I still couldn't understand because my friend was in our car all the time, so why wasn't that a problem?! That is when I got one of the first full-on lectures about racism and how black people and other ethnic minorities were treated very differently in the US. When I spoke to my friend about it, he told me about the talks his dad had with him about how he, my friend, was to talk to the police, the MPs (Military Police), even teachers. It wasn't even remotely like my speech from my parents which simply consisted of "Be polite."

So, what I see in that comic is something I remember from my childhood and really encountering and starting to understand institutional racism, though I didn't know that was what it was called. Personally, I am glad more and more people are becoming aware of this issue, but this has been going on since the birth of our country. These talks have never not been a part of the AA experience in the US with regards to young AA children, especially young black men. This is the side of racism, which IMO, is the face many, many white people simply "don't get it" because they don't see it!

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How do you feel about this cartoon? [View all] ZombieHorde Mar 2016 OP
Evidence suggests it should be in the home of every black person in America. Jackie Wilson Said Mar 2016 #1
Because police are always perfect angels when they deal with white people? Towlie Mar 2016 #61
It makes my heart Faux pas Mar 2016 #2
It's heartbreaking...and indignant lunamagica Mar 2016 #3
+1! BlueMTexpat Mar 2016 #6
+2 Haveadream Mar 2016 #63
You asked how I feel. Horrible that this is necessary in todays jwirr Mar 2016 #4
It makes me sad that black folks have to endure this steve2470 Mar 2016 #5
My son's have had this talk on more than one occasion. giftedgirl77 Mar 2016 #7
It breaks my heart... sheshe2 Mar 2016 #8
I remember a live vid of LeVar Burton 'talking to his kid' alittlelark Mar 2016 #9
It's infuriating and scary. It's awful that this is necessary. SusanCalvin Mar 2016 #10
It's horribly offensive ... Scuba Mar 2016 #11
My father had the same talk with me. Vincardog Mar 2016 #12
same fbc Mar 2016 #19
Reality. brer cat Mar 2016 #13
The father forgot one point: ejbr Mar 2016 #14
It hurts my heart. eom. Rebkeh Mar 2016 #15
Damn. Bobbie Jo Mar 2016 #16
extremely sad. Considering that I'm a military brat and demigoddess Mar 2016 #17
Same. snort Mar 2016 #32
When Obama was in a town earlier this year Omaha Steve Mar 2016 #18
i keep trying to impress my moderate GOP epal about white privilege.but he has stopped watching fux. pansypoo53219 Mar 2016 #20
Meanwhile, on the other side of town.... Spitfire of ATJ Mar 2016 #21
It is a sad state of affairs. Behind the Aegis Mar 2016 #22
Well said, BtA. brer cat Mar 2016 #24
thank you heaven05 Mar 2016 #42
+1. 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2016 #53
excellent post nt steve2470 Mar 2016 #64
Yup, Jamaal510 Mar 2016 #23
Very true, harsh, and sad reality randr Mar 2016 #25
💯 KeepItReal Mar 2016 #26
It's a "cartoon"............. MyOwnPeace Mar 2016 #27
Even that is not enough anymore MynameisBlarney Mar 2016 #28
I was doing a lesson to my kids in a special needs class and told them about calling 9-11 kimbutgar Mar 2016 #29
kimbutgar, There are different saidsimplesimon Mar 2016 #37
I am a very light skinned black woman who can pass for white kimbutgar Mar 2016 #59
I feel like crying, to be honest. Clearly the cartoon presents a hideous truth, and although tblue37 Mar 2016 #30
I think it's unrealistic. malthaussen Mar 2016 #31
It angers and saddens me that this is at all necessary. Bubzer Mar 2016 #33
Makes me feel sad and worried for our friends. AllyCat Mar 2016 #34
It's incredibly sad CoffeeCat Mar 2016 #35
Looks like a survival manual for young black kids in America. Institutionalized Racist America. nt valerief Mar 2016 #36
I'm a white father................. Ernesto Mar 2016 #38
primary lesson to be taught heaven05 Mar 2016 #39
I got something of the same years ago yuiyoshida Mar 2016 #40
A heartbreaking truth n/t sarge43 Mar 2016 #41
I know this is true and needed in this day and age LittleGirl Mar 2016 #43
Sad but True libodem Mar 2016 #44
This message was self-deleted by its author imari362 Mar 2016 #45
Don't take this the wrong way WHEN CRABS ROAR Mar 2016 #46
To me it clears up the myth that police "Protect and Serve" the public. RoccoR5955 Mar 2016 #47
It should be on the side of city buses. jtuck004 Mar 2016 #48
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2016 #49
I'm white, and that's how I always conducted myself. JohnnyRingo Mar 2016 #50
"many African Americans fit a broad general description" NOLALady Mar 2016 #62
Survival skills in the USA Police State. So damn sad. n/t RKP5637 Mar 2016 #51
I got "The Talk", too ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2016 #52
sorry that you got the talk and... steve2470 Mar 2016 #54
I do! My dad trusted two cops ... his brother and his partner. 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2016 #55
If I can be so nosy, what was his opinion of police racism ? steve2470 Mar 2016 #56
Yes ... But what's worse, he ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2016 #65
oh I'm sorry to hear that steve2470 Mar 2016 #66
Worse than that ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2016 #67
yikes! scary indeed nt steve2470 Apr 2016 #68
It depicts reality lunatica Mar 2016 #57
Sad and heartbroken. Lifelong Protester Mar 2016 #58
It hurts. Innocence gets lost so soon nt Quayblue Mar 2016 #60
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