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JustAnotherGen

(38,106 posts)
17. I have both read the book
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 10:50 AM
Feb 2012

And suffered through the film on a flight back from Europe. Maaaaaaaan - was I happy when it was over and I flipped over to Bad Teacher! Cameron Diaz's transformation in her movie was far faaaaaaar more compelling than the Rip Off Artist in The Help.

And I'll say it again - Why now?

Great - white folks can only open their eyes when it's a weak black woman in a subjugated position? My mother was disgusted by the premise - but then again she thinks she's Obama's "Mother" - as do two other caucasian women in my mom's age group that have 'black children" by birth.

I think arguing about it with people that can't see it is a waste of time.

The same people believe Saint Ronnie's Welfare Queen Meme - and can't see the connection between being a single black mother domestic worker, trumped up charges against black men, the 'emasculating' nature of the criminal justice system for black men . . . and how it's not Welfare/TANF that is inter-generational . . . but the black subjugated working poor status in America that manifested itself in share cropping, domestic work, and a 'day's pay'.

There's a scene in the flick where one of the characters does something to the 'nice white folk's food' - had she been caught - she would have been lynched.


Number23 - here's what I'm telling people - my fiance owns a movie called The Long Walk Home. He flew home from Italy a week after me and he TOO watched the help on B.A. Now he's owned The Long Walk home for a few years - and I shouldn't tell this secret . . . but he likes lifetime movies!

Everyone who ooohs and aaaahs over the movie - The Help - should be forced to watch The Long Walk Home.

It's the REAL story of a friendly employer with a black maid (Whoopi Goldberg and Sissy Spacek star in the movie) - in the shadows of the Civil Rights movement. After the 'feel good' of The Help - it's a reality show.

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I disagree with MHP. I thought it was a wonderful film and very uplifting. Tx4obama Feb 2012 #1
So the fact that so many black women have a problem with this film means exactly what to you? Number23 Feb 2012 #6
I wouldn't compare this movie to "Precious." pnwmom Feb 2012 #2
I didn't say Harris Perry "erased" anything Number23 Feb 2012 #5
I didn't say you did. Harris-Perry said the movie "erased" the reality of rape pnwmom Feb 2012 #7
"Since you haven't seen the movie,you're not in much of a position to evaluate it." Number23 Feb 2012 #8
You have every right to voice your concerns and I'm sorry you felt intruded upon pnwmom Feb 2012 #9
I understand what you're saying. Now maybe you can understand what *I* am saying Number23 Feb 2012 #11
I have both read the book JustAnotherGen Feb 2012 #17
"And I'll say it again - Why now?" Number23 Feb 2012 #20
Definitely Check It Out JustAnotherGen Mar 2012 #26
Rosewood for sure SemperEadem Mar 2012 #30
IMO Mr Dixon Apr 2012 #38
I have not NOLALady Apr 2012 #39
Your sweetie pie has highlighted the issue BEAUTIFULLY Number23 Mar 2012 #31
is that the movie SemperEadem Mar 2012 #28
My response was to your post pre-edit Number23 Feb 2012 #12
I also dissagree about Precious...If I may??? FreedRadical Feb 2012 #3
Here's an unintentionally hilarious criticism of 'Precious' from Counterpunch RZM Feb 2012 #4
Hi David Number23 Feb 2012 #10
I found Precious impossibly brutal, too. Very painful. MADem Feb 2012 #19
"I wanted to jump through the screen and start kicking some ass, frankly." Number23 Feb 2012 #21
The woman who played her was amazing. A-maz-ing. MADem Feb 2012 #23
MADem, what a really amazing, thought provoking post Number23 Feb 2012 #24
We love comedians because they make us laugh. MADem Mar 2012 #25
Comedians, more times than not SemperEadem Mar 2012 #32
one way i try to explain : nofurylike Mar 2012 #27
Good grief Number23 Mar 2012 #29
i mean it. nofurylike Mar 2012 #34
I read the book, I also saw the movie. (The Help) onpatrol98 Feb 2012 #13
Awesome post Number23 Feb 2012 #14
So True!!! onpatrol98 Feb 2012 #15
I give Perry JustAnotherGen Feb 2012 #18
I do the same thing. I give Perry alot (and I mean ALOT) of grief Number23 Feb 2012 #22
I didn't see the movie, but great insights... Blue_Tires Feb 2012 #16
I disliked it. kiss mah grits Mar 2012 #33
there were many good performances in "The Help" noiretextatique Mar 2012 #35
Nice analysis. Number23 Mar 2012 #36
i think she should pay her noiretextatique Mar 2012 #37
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