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JustAnotherGen

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26. Definitely Check It Out

Thu Mar 1, 2012, 07:26 AM

Mar 2012

He also thinks that if movies are how white Americans learn things - they should watch Mississippi Burning and Ghosts of Mississippi and Rosewood. He was living in Paris at the time those two came out - and they were runaway hits there.

I shared with him this discussion last night and he still thinks - American women who don't have black female friends could learn more about our experience if they invited us to dinner in their home.

Keep in mind, he's an immigrant from Italy, though he lived here for a few years as a kid in the Bronx. Because of where they lived in the Bronx - his parents friends that they invited to Sunday dinner tended to be black Americans, Brazilians, Haitians, and Italians. His mothers BFF to this day was a domestic worker in Manhattan. So he's viewing this subject through the prism of - Uh - if you don't have "brown" people in your home as a GUEST on a regular basis The Help isn't giving you any insight into the lives of black women . . . And their private family lives.

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I disagree with MHP. I thought it was a wonderful film and very uplifting. Tx4obama Feb 2012 #1

So the fact that so many black women have a problem with this film means exactly what to you? Number23 Feb 2012 #6

I wouldn't compare this movie to "Precious." pnwmom Feb 2012 #2

I didn't say Harris Perry "erased" anything Number23 Feb 2012 #5

I didn't say you did. Harris-Perry said the movie "erased" the reality of rape pnwmom Feb 2012 #7

"Since you haven't seen the movie,you're not in much of a position to evaluate it." Number23 Feb 2012 #8

You have every right to voice your concerns and I'm sorry you felt intruded upon pnwmom Feb 2012 #9

I understand what you're saying. Now maybe you can understand what *I* am saying Number23 Feb 2012 #11

I have both read the book JustAnotherGen Feb 2012 #17

"And I'll say it again - Why now?" Number23 Feb 2012 #20

Definitely Check It Out JustAnotherGen Mar 2012 #26

Rosewood for sure SemperEadem Mar 2012 #30

IMO Mr Dixon Apr 2012 #38

I have not NOLALady Apr 2012 #39

Your sweetie pie has highlighted the issue BEAUTIFULLY Number23 Mar 2012 #31

is that the movie SemperEadem Mar 2012 #28

My response was to your post pre-edit Number23 Feb 2012 #12

I also dissagree about Precious...If I may??? FreedRadical Feb 2012 #3

Here's an unintentionally hilarious criticism of 'Precious' from Counterpunch RZM Feb 2012 #4

Hi David Number23 Feb 2012 #10

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"I wanted to jump through the screen and start kicking some ass, frankly." Number23 Feb 2012 #21

The woman who played her was amazing. A-maz-ing. MADem Feb 2012 #23

MADem, what a really amazing, thought provoking post Number23 Feb 2012 #24

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Comedians, more times than not SemperEadem Mar 2012 #32

one way i try to explain : nofurylike Mar 2012 #27

Good grief Number23 Mar 2012 #29

i mean it. nofurylike Mar 2012 #34

I read the book, I also saw the movie. (The Help) onpatrol98 Feb 2012 #13

Awesome post Number23 Feb 2012 #14

So True!!! onpatrol98 Feb 2012 #15

I give Perry JustAnotherGen Feb 2012 #18

I do the same thing. I give Perry alot (and I mean ALOT) of grief Number23 Feb 2012 #22

I didn't see the movie, but great insights... Blue_Tires Feb 2012 #16

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there were many good performances in "The Help" noiretextatique Mar 2012 #35

Nice analysis. Number23 Mar 2012 #36

i think she should pay her noiretextatique Mar 2012 #37