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In reply to the discussion: I have a problem with a Religion host [View all]TM99
(8,352 posts)I do not agree that he called you a Nazi nor that he was particularly inappropriate enough to warrant sanctions as a host in this community.
I recognize that you believe that. And my point was, whether you believe it or not, why does it matter. You put out shit, and you perceived that you got shit back. You must have known that that potential consequence might occur after your comments.
While we might agree to enjoy Carol Burnett, my quoting her was to suggest that perhaps it was too soon for a joke about a tragedy. Particular since the whole thread seemed to just be another attempt by anti-theists to mock believers for their stupid and silly rituals that in this case ended in real tragedy.
No one including myself is suggesting that you must change your sense of humor. Frankly, I know that I am rather humorless. I don't tell jokes. I don't particularly like comedies. My ideas of funny today are rather old fashion - Carol Burnett, Laurel & Hardy, and Jerry Lewis - and then I enjoy the physical slapstick component. To each his own.
And when you communicate as you did your particular brand of humor, don't be surprised if it isn't always appreciated or applauded. Pushing back against that isn't inappropriate. S4P described your humor as being schadenfreude and gave an example of its worst type of expression. That was an opinion and not a call out in my estimation.