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In reply to the discussion: Bob Jones University told rape victims to repent and look for ‘root sin’ that caused their attack [View all]AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)"I am much more interested in seeing people leave groups that are heinous to their bones."
You and I have a different starting place from which to approach the bulk of the RCC's social doctrine, and the accompanying lobbying and judicial challenges that come with it.
I see it, as being in the marrow itself. It appears you do not.
That said, the number of valid relief valves I can see for members who disagree with doctrine, is colored by that starting place, and historical relief available to members of that church on just the specific issue of contraception. Which is to say, leave or ignore the doctrine and do what they need to do according to their values.
I don't think it's shocking to suggest to someone of faith that there are other faith based orgs, VERY similar in nature, that reflect the values they wish to live. It's not like I said they should just give up the whole thing, or that they are bad people for staying.