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AtheistCrusader

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42. Oh, I'm still fat.
Thu Jun 19, 2014, 03:55 PM
Jun 2014

But I'm less fat.

I have other co-workers who reacted to his wheedling and nagging differently than I did. He practically dragged me out there/guilt tripped me into it over all sorts of protests like 'my knees won't take it', etc.

He got me going though, and the improvement is dramatic. I still have a long way to go, but already the difference is night and day. I can tie my shoes without holding my breath, for instance.

His motivational effect on some others was not... super stellar. I think that's what you're getting at, if I understand.



I did have feelings when others pointed it out, but honestly, I couldn't hear them over the sound of my own self-loathing. Nothing spoke louder than the picture of me at my best friend's wedding, stuffed into that tux. Easily two of any of the other wedding party members. I still kind of hate myself for it.

I identify a great deal with a lot of the self-loathing illustrated herein:
http://theoatmeal.com/comics/running

Probably not NSFW but maybe, dunno:
http://theoatmeal.com/comics/what_you_see

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"Within the past year BJU has opened its own investigation into sexual abuse and rape" beam me up scottie Jun 2014 #1
No surprise. madamesilverspurs Jun 2014 #2
There's nothing even human okasha Jun 2014 #3
Some people on this board would call that skepticscott Jun 2014 #6
And the jury results are in... aikoaiko Jun 2014 #46
I'm pretty sure I know which troll sent that alert. rug Jun 2014 #47
Me, too. okasha Jun 2014 #48
It's time to shut that shithole down. InAbLuEsTaTe Jun 2014 #55
I wonder, then, how it is that so many are fooled by it. Let's ask a feminist from 100 years ago. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author Htom Sirveaux Jun 2014 #11
The founder of BJU was a spokesman for the Ku Klux Klan. n/t radicalliberal Jun 2014 #5
They promote a brutal form of fascist Christianity. Htom Sirveaux Jun 2014 #12
When I was coaching college debate, we debated them once in a while Goblinmonger Jun 2014 #14
Wow, now I'm curious. Htom Sirveaux Jun 2014 #18
No they were horrible. Goblinmonger Jun 2014 #19
I was going to ask this Dorian Gray Jun 2014 #50
I'll say what I said in the thread in GD Dorian Gray Jun 2014 #7
But of course, it was all social and political skepticscott Jun 2014 #9
Did I say any of that? Dorian Gray Jun 2014 #49
Did I say you did? skepticscott Jun 2014 #56
Sickening, but not surprising. cbayer Jun 2014 #8
I found the root sin that caused their attack. Iggo Jun 2014 #10
This. n/t Htom Sirveaux Jun 2014 #13
I agreed with your post 11 before you deleted it. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #15
I deleted it because Htom Sirveaux Jun 2014 #16
You really should read those in context before passing judgement on me. cbayer Jun 2014 #17
Thank you for the context. Htom Sirveaux Jun 2014 #20
Worse than just having 'no impact' when speaking out. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #22
It is a very complex and personal decision. cbayer Jun 2014 #24
Oh no you don't. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #28
Oh, yes I do. cbayer Jun 2014 #29
You introduced 'obligation', not me. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #32
I am much more interested in seeing people leave groups that cbayer Jun 2014 #33
Then that is the source of our disagreement. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #34
Yes, it is the source of our disagreement. cbayer Jun 2014 #35
We discussed this before. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #36
Are you a smoker by any chance? cbayer Jun 2014 #37
No, I don't drink or smoke. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #39
Good for you! Big congratulations. cbayer Jun 2014 #41
Oh, I'm still fat. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #42
I think the point you make about self-loathing is an accurate one for cbayer Jun 2014 #43
Well, the first guy to run one, DID die... AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #44
Smoking has been my biggest weakness since I first started at age 12. cbayer Jun 2014 #45
Being able to run in marathons Dorian Gray Jun 2014 #53
I quit smoking 8 years ago Dorian Gray Jun 2014 #52
Thanks for the support, DG. cbayer Jun 2014 #57
Best of luck Dorian Gray Jun 2014 #58
I've done it. cbayer Jun 2014 #59
Your understanding of ecclesiology is poor. rug Jun 2014 #38
I agree. It all kinda looks the same to me, fair point. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #40
I gave the precise context. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #21
No, AC. The precise context would be links to the quotes so cbayer Jun 2014 #25
I described the context precisely. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #26
No, you described your perspective. cbayer Jun 2014 #27
Disagreements don't get much more black and white than that thread you linked. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #31
+100 okasha Jun 2014 #23
Too bad BJU doesn't get that. cbayer Jun 2014 #30
Essentially Dorian Gray Jun 2014 #51
He needs his ass kicked and look for the root cause of his asskicking. SummerSnow Jun 2014 #54
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