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In reply to the discussion: Bob Jones University told rape victims to repent and look for ‘root sin’ that caused their attack [View all]AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)But I'm less fat.
I have other co-workers who reacted to his wheedling and nagging differently than I did. He practically dragged me out there/guilt tripped me into it over all sorts of protests like 'my knees won't take it', etc.
He got me going though, and the improvement is dramatic. I still have a long way to go, but already the difference is night and day. I can tie my shoes without holding my breath, for instance.
His motivational effect on some others was not... super stellar. I think that's what you're getting at, if I understand.
I did have feelings when others pointed it out, but honestly, I couldn't hear them over the sound of my own self-loathing. Nothing spoke louder than the picture of me at my best friend's wedding, stuffed into that tux. Easily two of any of the other wedding party members. I still kind of hate myself for it.
I identify a great deal with a lot of the self-loathing illustrated herein:
http://theoatmeal.com/comics/running
Probably not NSFW but maybe, dunno:
http://theoatmeal.com/comics/what_you_see