Religion
In reply to the discussion: I don’t want my wife to indoctrinate our two-year-old into religion [View all]Sweeney
(505 posts)over who their children are going to be when they are already the people they are going to be. The most important quality of anyone is personality and kids are already born with it complete. What can parents do? Window dressing? A little paint here and there. The hard part is done, The house is built and parents only need to fill it with love. All parents have to do is support. If you want to fight, just fight. Using your kids as an excuse only lays a guilt trip on them. Who needs an excuse really. Perfectly religious people have atheist babies. Atheist parents have religious babies. What kind of control freak thinks they have a change of molding a baby? They are already done. All you can do is screw them up.
All people need to learn to do is turn their own inadiquacy and self loathing inside out and let it desolve them into a puddle on the floor. Leave the kids alone. They will be who they will be, and only be better with love.