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In reply to the discussion: Why Did So Many Christians Support Slavery? [View all]MichMary
(1,714 posts)and I answered according to my experience.
What I learned as a child in a pretty fundamental church (and home) is that "works" do not a Christian make. How you live, how you treat people, is supposed to show what is within. To reflect God's love in your life. Needless to say, it doesn't always.
Certain things are open to interpretation. Never do business with a "good" Christian, because he will screw you six ways to Sunday, then pat himself on the back for being a "good steward of God's gifts.
Growing up, there was a list of restrictions as long as my arm about expectations for my behavior as a Christian girl. Smoking, drinking, gambling, movies, dancing, rock music, etc. Boys were judged based on the length of their hair.
I recently found out that my mother told my husband that he wasn't a Christian because he was Catholic.
Still, the whole "how can a Christian ever--" is nonsensical. You can't judge what a person believes based on how he acts.
(And, no, I never met a Christian who was a fan of slavery.)