Should I respect this sincere religious belief, a tenet of the SBC?

[Igel]

5. Define "servant leadership."

Is beating her "servant leadership"? Is nurturing and supporting her efforts "servant leadership"?

"No, you filthy bastard, I know you agreed to help me go and get my graduate degree, and supported my choice of dissertation topic and my career choices. That's just morally wrong, and how *dare* you not get in my way." I can see women I've known saying this, but only after they screwed up and didn't want to take responsibility. In other words, so much.

Otherwise, it's just displeasure with the word "submit."

I would note, however, that from the earliest records the church rarely submitted to Christ. Mostly it found ways to do what it wanted and say it was submitting to Christ.