Where does the money in your offering plate go?

[cbayer]

2. I grew up a preacher's kid.

We lived in a parsonage. My father's salary and all of our expenses were paid for by the congregation, and we lived very, very simply.

The upkeep of the church building was paid for by the congregation. The services of others (the secretary, janitorial staff) were paid for by the congregation. Food and coffee supplies also came out of there.

Money went to local causes. We had a coffee house that provided a place for political activists to gather. The church was involved in gang work. Money was given to families or individuals who were in crisis. The weekly bulletins and monthly newsletter were in the budget. Flowers, candles, communion supplies, music for the choir all in the budget.

Most churches have boards or selected/elected groups of people that oversee the budget. I don't recall that there were open meetings to discuss it, but I wouldn't be surprised. I don't think there was ever a secret. I do know that there was sometimes not enough money.

So, yeah, it's a business. So what?

You asked once in one church as an 18 year old? Congregations are always looking for members to take care of things like budgeting. Perhaps they would have welcomed your help.

So give your money where you feel comfortable. I won't question it. Why would you question how others give their money?