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PotatoChip

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3. The pastor sounds a bit petty to be preoccupied by this.

Sat Oct 19, 2013, 09:59 AM

Oct 2013

His feelings of embarrassment really have no relevance to the situation. It is not about him.

Otoh, it appears that the deceased man's family had no objection to the prayer. Therefore (imo), the neighbor who found praying objectionable ought to have kept her opinions to herself, out of respect for them. If prayer is what they wanted, who is she to voice her opinion(s) on the matter?

It may have been awkward, but surely she could have found some other way to deal w/the situation. Perhaps politely excuse herself from the room somehow?

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The struggle with a virtuous atheist [View all] rug Oct 2013 OP

The headline is a nice tease :D intaglio Oct 2013 #1

This line was a nice pivot. rug Oct 2013 #2

The pastor sounds a bit petty to be preoccupied by this. PotatoChip Oct 2013 #3

Seems like all she did was edhopper Oct 2013 #4

Did you miss this part of the OP? PotatoChip Oct 2013 #5

As he stared at her edhopper Oct 2013 #6

Where does it say that he stared at her? (nt) PotatoChip Oct 2013 #7

My reading of his story edhopper Oct 2013 #9

So he thought it was "awkward" that she didn't bow her head Mariana Oct 2013 #19

I think context plays a roll in this as well el_bryanto Oct 2013 #8

I don't see where she objected to the prayer edhopper Oct 2013 #10

Maybe she was grieving too Lordquinton Oct 2013 #21

It's great that he was able to confront his own prejudices and see her for who cbayer Oct 2013 #11

After reading the entire piece... rexcat Oct 2013 #18

Perhaps the good pastor should revisit Matthew 7:1-5. Gore1FL Oct 2013 #12

When people pray where I am, I'm simply silent MineralMan Oct 2013 #13

That's nice. rug Oct 2013 #14

Thanks, rug. MineralMan Oct 2013 #15

No one's ever noticed me not bowing my head at all. AtheistCrusader Oct 2013 #16

It happens. Mariana Oct 2013 #20

Your action in this situation sounds appropriate. No Vested Interest Oct 2013 #17

Thanks. At a recent Lutheran funeral, I did as I usually do MineralMan Oct 2013 #22

It can split up families. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2013 #23