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MineralMan

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22. Thanks. At a recent Lutheran funeral, I did as I usually do

Thu Oct 24, 2013, 02:03 PM

Oct 2013

during prayers, which is nothing at all. The minister officiating at the funeral apparently noticed my non-prayer, and asked me about it at the funeral "lunch" that seems to be a part of all Lutheran funerals. I told her that I was an atheist, so didn't participate in prayers. She said, "Oh." Then, we had an interesting conversation about Martin Luther and the Augsburg Confession, and what it had meant to Christianity in Europe and elsewhere.

It was one of the better funerals I have attended.

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The struggle with a virtuous atheist [View all] rug Oct 2013 OP

The headline is a nice tease :D intaglio Oct 2013 #1

This line was a nice pivot. rug Oct 2013 #2

The pastor sounds a bit petty to be preoccupied by this. PotatoChip Oct 2013 #3

Seems like all she did was edhopper Oct 2013 #4

Did you miss this part of the OP? PotatoChip Oct 2013 #5

As he stared at her edhopper Oct 2013 #6

Where does it say that he stared at her? (nt) PotatoChip Oct 2013 #7

My reading of his story edhopper Oct 2013 #9

So he thought it was "awkward" that she didn't bow her head Mariana Oct 2013 #19

I think context plays a roll in this as well el_bryanto Oct 2013 #8

I don't see where she objected to the prayer edhopper Oct 2013 #10

Maybe she was grieving too Lordquinton Oct 2013 #21

It's great that he was able to confront his own prejudices and see her for who cbayer Oct 2013 #11

After reading the entire piece... rexcat Oct 2013 #18

Perhaps the good pastor should revisit Matthew 7:1-5. Gore1FL Oct 2013 #12

When people pray where I am, I'm simply silent MineralMan Oct 2013 #13

That's nice. rug Oct 2013 #14

Thanks, rug. MineralMan Oct 2013 #15

No one's ever noticed me not bowing my head at all. AtheistCrusader Oct 2013 #16

It happens. Mariana Oct 2013 #20

Your action in this situation sounds appropriate. No Vested Interest Oct 2013 #17

Thanks. At a recent Lutheran funeral, I did as I usually do MineralMan Oct 2013 #22

It can split up families. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2013 #23