Catholicism and Orthodox Christianity
In reply to the discussion: Lesbian Catholic school teacher fired after mother's death because obit listed her partner [View all]georges641
(123 posts)I'm a convert to Catholicism. I knew when I joined the Church I would have to make some changes.
For example, I used contraception in my marriage but quit when I became a Catholic. I didn't at first like the idea of going to Church every Sunday, but I accepted it, and soon came to love it and often went to daily Mass as well.
If I were to join a club that required wearing a blue blazer and black slacks at every meeting, and I got thrown out for wearing a red jacket and yellow pants, I should not scratch my head and wonder why or complain about unfairness. The rules were clearly stated. Who am I to deserve special treatment?
This board is the same way. There are rules and if they are broken, the poster gets tossed. Is that unfair?
At any rate, the members don't force any changes regarding doctrine or dogma. That comes from the top down and always will. The Church is not a democracy.