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JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
10. I'll go against the tide here.
Fri Oct 26, 2012, 06:35 PM
Oct 2012

I grew up Catholic and went to Catholic school for a few years. To be honest my mother only sent us there because the public schools went on strike a couple of years in a row and at least the Catholic schools started on time! (She wasn't a nurturing sort of mom).

Anyhow, my faith and my years at Catholic school were only ever a comfort to me. The nuns we had (we had lay teachers and nuns) were pretty liberal, kind and patient. I never got hit there, didn't have to be highly aware at all times in order to survive, like at home with mommy dearest.

My journey to atheism was more of an intellectual quest. I had to reach a certain level of emotional development to begin the process and that happened in my thirties, after my dad died. I had been pretty dependent on him for guidance in almost all things. I doubt I would/could have ever made the journey while he lived so it's like his death was one of the worst things ever to happen in my life while also, in a way, being one of the best.

I hope that makes sense.

Julie

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Count me in. evlbstrd Oct 2012 #1
I wouldn't know, I've never knowingly met another atheist Fumesucker Oct 2012 #2
how to spot an atheist Armin-A Nov 2012 #24
I know where you can meet LOTS of them on Sunday morning. Manifestor_of_Light Sep 2013 #29
I'm going out on a limb and guessing it depends mostly on where you grew up. dimbear Oct 2012 #3
I've pointed it out for many years Warpy Oct 2012 #4
I consider myself a Catholic school survivor. smokey nj Oct 2012 #5
I was invited to leave catholic school in the second grade. Iggo Oct 2012 #6
Absolutely Mr.Bill Oct 2012 #9
Or were raised as Southern Baptists... like me! n/t kdmorris Oct 2012 #7
Ditto on that one. Neoma Oct 2012 #20
Most of the kids I went to school with were catholic. beam me up scottie Oct 2012 #8
I'll go against the tide here. JNelson6563 Oct 2012 #10
Although it doesn't mirror my path to Atheism, Mr.Bill Oct 2012 #11
understand completely sammythecat Aug 2013 #25
That wasn't the case for me. Curmudgeoness Oct 2012 #12
Not for me...but I think it may have been a factor for my sister DagoRed Oct 2012 #13
"St. Fisting of the Bloody Terror" beam me up scottie Oct 2012 #14
"Our Lady of the Erroneous Assumption" is just down the block. nt GliderGuider Oct 2012 #15
Hi GG! beam me up scottie Oct 2012 #19
I was spared the Catholic secondary education three of my older sisters and my older brother had smokey nj Oct 2012 #17
Welcome to DU! I think you'll fit in nicely! Arugula Latte Nov 2012 #22
My father was raised Ukrainian Orthodox - he became one of the most vocal atheists I've known. GliderGuider Oct 2012 #16
I was raised mainstream ECLA Lutheran Odin2005 Oct 2012 #18
Indeed, I've noticed that... meeshrox Oct 2012 #21
Include me in. Simo 1939_1940 Nov 2012 #23
Count me in as well ... Trajan Aug 2013 #26
Catholicism itself had very little to do with it for me. LostOne4Ever Aug 2013 #27
I've heard of a similar story with regular Catholic church goers not going to Catholic schools ShadowLiberal Aug 2013 #28
I was 'saved' from religion much earlier than catholic school. AtheistCrusader Sep 2013 #30
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