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Curmudgeoness

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6. I know what you are saying, but
Sun Jan 13, 2013, 08:58 PM
Jan 2013

I don't see the harm in just letting the family have their little grace before a meal instead of causing a scene. It is just polite and you should already have known this would happen when you agreed to have dinner at their house. I guess that I am not a radical atheist. I do get upset about public prayer that happens at places where I don't expect it, but I am not going to be a horse's ass at a family gathering. As long as they don't ask me to lead a prayer.

Going along to get along is not a sin, nor does it change my nonbelief system. It just doesn't matter. And I am not out to "convert" anyone like you-know-who would.

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Thank-you for this... NeoGreen Jan 2013 #1
I like what you're doing TxDemChem Jan 2013 #2
I'm an Eagle Scout Stuckinthebush Jan 2013 #5
Got mine in 1980 Gore1FL Jan 2013 #16
I defined "God" as the 4 forces of nature and the laws of Physics. Gore1FL Jan 2013 #17
Ramen! Demo_Chris Jan 2013 #3
And the people say... Stuckinthebush Jan 2013 #4
I know what you are saying, but Curmudgeoness Jan 2013 #6
Yup. progressoid Jan 2013 #8
Oh I agree completely Stuckinthebush Jan 2013 #9
I guess that I am not asked to say a prayer Curmudgeoness Jan 2013 #13
I don't pray. Iggo Jan 2013 #11
LOL. OK. Curmudgeoness Jan 2013 #14
My family knows I'm an atheist and I'm not to be included in their hocus pocus. Iggo Jan 2013 #15
Occasionally, I have dinner guests that ask if we can pray... cleanhippie Jan 2013 #19
LOL! Stuckinthebush Jan 2013 #20
If it is really important to those people, Curmudgeoness Jan 2013 #25
When my daughter's boyfriend visited for the first time noamnety Jan 2013 #7
So wrong! Stuckinthebush Jan 2013 #10
Damn, I am a shitheel OriginalGeek Jan 2013 #12
Nah....not a shitheel at all! Stuckinthebush Jan 2013 #22
You spy out the best foods!!! LOL! Curmudgeoness Jan 2013 #26
You gotta make a plan! OriginalGeek Jan 2013 #27
Thanks for the laughs. Curmudgeoness Jan 2013 #28
I won't say grace if asked to. Gore1FL Jan 2013 #18
Or you could just say... Stuckinthebush Jan 2013 #21
"Rub-a-dub-dub, thanks for the grub. Yea god!" Ligyron Jan 2013 #23
So I went to my husband's uncle's funeral last night TxDemChem Jan 2013 #24
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