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Atheists & Agnostics

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16. I have encountered it as a shame mechanism too

Wed Aug 14, 2013, 05:27 PM

Aug 2013

kinda like "I'm praying for them, why aren't you?" the whole if you're not religious, then you're not a good person kind of thing.

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I'm praying for....! [View all] Stuckinthebush Aug 2013 OP

Matthew 6:5-6 trotsky Aug 2013 #1

Nah, I disagree. malthaussen Aug 2013 #2

I don't disagree with you Stuckinthebush Aug 2013 #6

I'd tentaively guess it has to do with who's doing the praying... malthaussen Aug 2013 #13

It's the oldest form of slacktivism Warpy Aug 2013 #3

True, but... Stuckinthebush Aug 2013 #7

They think it is reassuring to the recipient. AtheistCrusader Aug 2013 #10

So the act of praying doesn't exist without public disclosure Stuckinthebush Aug 2013 #12

Right. And if the prayee didn't say anything, the recipient would never know. AtheistCrusader Aug 2013 #15

The person doing it is approval-seeking Warpy Aug 2013 #11

Yes, that's my thought Stuckinthebush Aug 2013 #14

It's just one of many ways to express sympathy. JoeyT Aug 2013 #4

That is a good point Stuckinthebush Aug 2013 #8

Oh, I love that and am stealing it for my own. malthaussen Aug 2013 #9

I have encountered it as a shame mechanism too Lordquinton Aug 2013 #16

God is in a quandary. You can help Him make up His mind! dimbear Aug 2013 #17