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Leith

(7,864 posts)
5. I'm Very Sorry for the Loss of Your Family Member
Fri Jan 23, 2015, 03:12 AM
Jan 2015

Our pets are members of our families just like humans. They have their own quirks, personalities, and idiosyncrasies. You love them and they love you.

I lost my two cats recently. One to diabetes and complications, the other to cancer. It tore my heart out each time. Best to you and your family.

It sounds like you have your beliefs figured out. I describe myself as an agnostic but, for all intents and purposes, I'm atheist. I fully understand the difficulties that religious people try to put on us. My favorite is when they question how a person who doesn't believe in their deity of choice can be a moral person. If their faith in an invisible sky daddy is the only thing keeping them from robbing, raping, and killing indiscriminately, let's hear it for their deity! People with strong internal morality don't need the fear of post death punishment to keep us from committing crimes on the world. Your son sounds wonderful.

Note to the religious & spiritual: I am not condemning your choices in life nor do I look down on them. It's wonderful that people have the freedom to arrive at the solutions that work for them. The issue that I have is when the more zealous insist that I follow their solutions. That just would not work out.

All the best to you in all things, AtheistCrusader.

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Our dog died yesterday. [View all] AtheistCrusader Jan 2015 OP
I'm very sorry for your loss. NYC_SKP Jan 2015 #1
I'm so sorry for your loss marym625 Jan 2015 #2
I agree, I believe in celebrating the life, not mourning the death and being honest with children hollysmom Jan 2015 #3
Sorry you and yours are hurting. beam me up scottie Jan 2015 #4
I'm Very Sorry for the Loss of Your Family Member Leith Jan 2015 #5
... defacto7 Jan 2015 #6
Sorry for all of you. But your pet will always live... onager Jan 2015 #7
"My" dog died 2 mo ago. ErikJ Jan 2015 #8
My condolences on the loss of your dog LostOne4Ever Jan 2015 #9
Ugh, I am so sorry for your loss. PeaceNikki Jan 2015 #10
Condolences. bvf Jan 2015 #11
When we accept the hard truth about the life we have we become stronger. Warren Stupidity Jan 2015 #12
So sorry for your loss. trotsky Jan 2015 #13
I'm sorry for the loss to your family. Hope you will get your son another dog sinkingfeeling Jan 2015 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author Pacifist Patriot Jan 2015 #15
It hurts, I know. Neon Gods Jan 2015 #16
Oh no...... so sad.... AlbertCat Jan 2015 #17
I am so sorry for the loss of your dog. Curmudgeoness Jan 2015 #18
Deeply sorry for your loss....dogs are great... truebrit71 Jan 2015 #19
Thank you for this post. F4lconF16 Jan 2015 #20
I am so sorry for your loss. kdmorris Jan 2015 #21
I love dogs Cartoonist Jan 2015 #22
I am extremely sorry for the loss of your beloved dog. RebelOne Jan 2015 #23
Thank you all so much. AtheistCrusader Jan 2015 #24
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