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Curmudgeoness

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12. I don't think my childhood experiences have any impact
Fri Jun 15, 2012, 06:17 PM
Jun 2012

on the way that I approach atheism. But then again, I was not raised in a religious home. I did go to Sunday school, and to church, and to Bible camp and weekend retreats. But I took those things as more of a social event than a worship session. (I was thrown out of Sunday school once because we were telling jokes and laughing and we were supposed to be praying, so I was obviously not serious.)

I also got involved in a "born again" group, and that is probably where my opinions of religion turned off. Those people were fucking nuts. They talked the Bible and God all the time----all the time. They would go into places and try to convert everyone. They studied the Bible in detail, but as usual, they picked and chose what they wanted to believe. I will give them this....they were pretty tame and "Jesus-like". At least they tried to be like Jesus---not the way this newer brand of Christian is acting. But I found it distasteful because they felt that they were better than the rest of the world.

So maybe this experience has shaped my approach. I am much less willing to tolerate those "saving" people or the ones who want to pray for me, as if I am the one who needs the prayers. I am not nasty about it, but I am firm that I don't want to have fantasy conversations. I might not be so adament if I had not experienced it from the other side----the converting side.

Most people who know me know that I have no beliefs in anything to do with religion or god or spirituality and I find that they just avoid conversations on it. I am more offended when I go to events that are not religious, but are secular or political, and I am forced to "be good" while they pray....maybe because I still don't know how to deal with this.

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I'm no more hostile to Christianity than I am to the Tooth Fairy Warpy Jun 2012 #1
+100 I feel exactly the same. Starboard Tack Jun 2012 #23
My grandfather taught me how to sing "Jesus Loves Me" in Swahili. dimbear Jun 2012 #2
Nope. laconicsax Jun 2012 #3
I'm still largely closeted, both politically and religiously Rittermeister Jun 2012 #4
I was Catholic in my early days SwissTony Jun 2012 #5
Hmmm.. not for me seemingly dmallind Jun 2012 #6
Indian atheists also have to refute and challenge Islam and Christianity. What a drag! nt daaron Jun 2012 #8
Sure - and you could say US ones do too, plus Judaism etc. But the big risks to secularism dmallind Jun 2012 #9
I am not hostile toward Christianity, I just reject it now. RebelOne Jun 2012 #7
Interesting questions all - been thinking about this lately, too. daaron Jun 2012 #10
Yes. FiveGoodMen Jun 2012 #11
I don't think my childhood experiences have any impact Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #12
I know! "Being good" while the grown-ups pray. daaron Jun 2012 #13
I never thought of that one. Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #15
Oh, you definitely should. It's your patriotic duty, as well as moral obligation. :) nt daaron Jun 2012 #16
I'd say my experience as a child directly influences my attitudes about religion... cynatnite Jun 2012 #14
No. I grew up in a mainstream Lutheran household. Odin2005 Jun 2012 #17
My 'first love' broke my heart because I wasn't a 'dedicated Christian.' wyldwolf Jun 2012 #18
There's nothing there to "practice". Iggo Jun 2012 #19
Wow, that leads to yet another circuitous story in my life Kennah Jun 2012 #20
Lordy.... AlbertCat Jun 2012 #21
"It wasn't until I was about 8 I realized adults actually BELIEVED that baloney" Lucy Goosey Jun 2012 #22
Yes. In elementary school... HopeHoops Jul 2012 #24
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