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Odin2005

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17. No. I grew up in a mainstream Lutheran household.
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 11:35 PM
Jun 2012

My mom made me go to church more out of Upper-Midwest small town social propriety then out of conviction. To her going to church is "just something you do", belief never entered the picture. In fact I don't think my mom has given a single thought about religious belief in and of itself, she is a liberal Theist who believes that (quoting her) "God loves everybody", but doesn't seem to reflect much about it. She is "concerned" that I don't go to church, but that has to do with said social propriety and nothing to do with any fear that I will go to hell (because she thinks only "bad people" go to Hell, not non-believers).

My Dad and his side of the family (all Lutherans as well) are somewhat more religious than my mom, but they are very tolerant and have the same "God loves everybody and only sends bad people to Hell" attitude at odds with the bigotry of the doctrine they adhere to.

There was never an exact moment that I "became" an Atheist, I slowly just fell away from religion in my late teens after I was confirmed.

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I'm no more hostile to Christianity than I am to the Tooth Fairy Warpy Jun 2012 #1
+100 I feel exactly the same. Starboard Tack Jun 2012 #23
My grandfather taught me how to sing "Jesus Loves Me" in Swahili. dimbear Jun 2012 #2
Nope. laconicsax Jun 2012 #3
I'm still largely closeted, both politically and religiously Rittermeister Jun 2012 #4
I was Catholic in my early days SwissTony Jun 2012 #5
Hmmm.. not for me seemingly dmallind Jun 2012 #6
Indian atheists also have to refute and challenge Islam and Christianity. What a drag! nt daaron Jun 2012 #8
Sure - and you could say US ones do too, plus Judaism etc. But the big risks to secularism dmallind Jun 2012 #9
I am not hostile toward Christianity, I just reject it now. RebelOne Jun 2012 #7
Interesting questions all - been thinking about this lately, too. daaron Jun 2012 #10
Yes. FiveGoodMen Jun 2012 #11
I don't think my childhood experiences have any impact Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #12
I know! "Being good" while the grown-ups pray. daaron Jun 2012 #13
I never thought of that one. Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #15
Oh, you definitely should. It's your patriotic duty, as well as moral obligation. :) nt daaron Jun 2012 #16
I'd say my experience as a child directly influences my attitudes about religion... cynatnite Jun 2012 #14
No. I grew up in a mainstream Lutheran household. Odin2005 Jun 2012 #17
My 'first love' broke my heart because I wasn't a 'dedicated Christian.' wyldwolf Jun 2012 #18
There's nothing there to "practice". Iggo Jun 2012 #19
Wow, that leads to yet another circuitous story in my life Kennah Jun 2012 #20
Lordy.... AlbertCat Jun 2012 #21
"It wasn't until I was about 8 I realized adults actually BELIEVED that baloney" Lucy Goosey Jun 2012 #22
Yes. In elementary school... HopeHoops Jul 2012 #24
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