If they are raised here they are told they don't speak *insert language here* like someone who comes from there..don't dress the same..have different values.. etc. I think these people often feel perpetually caught in the middle like they neither belong here or there until they just begin to really really love their uniqueness and embrace it. From any culture I think I would avoid the people who like to ridicule someone for no good reason. A pearl is a pearl wherever you find it. You don't have to be this or that. You are you gather the pearls you treasure and leave the rest for someone else. I don't know if I am making any sense to you or not, but I tried lol (((hug)))
edited to add: oops I did not see that this post was in the Asian group until after I posted. Sorry. I thought it was in the DU lounge. I'm not Asian. BUT I love Malaysian food 
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