When it's Grievance Politics vs Success Politics, won't "success" always win?

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3. Last time I listened to Hillary it was all complaints about those gay people wanting to marry and

she voiced endless grievance over it, claimed her God agreed with her and guided her to oppose the civil rights of millions of Americans, she was very upset that such inferior beings dared seek equality with the glorious Christian Straights of America. It was her speech to Rick Warren's church in which he lavished praise on Rick who called LGBT couples pedophiles and criminals, 'like incest' he said, and she just loved him.
That's when I signed off, when I hear any candidate holding up human beings for degradation and unequal treatment, I just stop listening to them. She spent about 10 years too long on the 'Sermons Against Equality' circuit.

I understand that that sort of divisive denigration of others is very appealing to many voters but I just don't care for it, aimed at me or at anyone else.