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2016 Postmortem
In reply to the discussion: The Democratic Primary Ruined My Friendship! [View all]Attorney in Texas
(3,373 posts)424. How disappointed would you be if 1/4 of your Democrat friends gave up and decided to support Kasich?
This is pretty much how most of my Sanders-supporting friends feel about our Hillary-supporting friends.
It's a value we believed was a shared value an so it is naturally disappointing to learn our values are not shared after all. It's like when you like someone, enjoy their company, share many views, and then you learn they are a racist or a homophobe or some other type of bigot - it makes you doubt whether you ever had all that much in common.
It's pretty cold comfort to try to patch things up with "hey, but we both still don't like Trump, right?"
If we nominate Hillary and Sanders endorses her, I'll vote for her with the same enthusiasm as I would vote for Kasich over Cruz or Trump if those were my only options.
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To borrow a gif from M0rpheus, one of my fave DUers ever, some of these folks here have me like this
Number23
Apr 2016
#201
Just one more example of the incivility of late--back in the day, even when we had heated
MADem
Apr 2016
#93
Could it be that the differences between candidates was never this stark? That a true leader emerged
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#227
Obama admits it. Did you "seriously" take a "news vacation" during that period of time?
MADem
Apr 2016
#407
Skinner changed the five hides rule because it was clear that Sanders supporters
NuclearDem
Apr 2016
#17
I have seen lots of abuse on DU that skinner never seemed to care about
R. Daneel Olivaw
Apr 2016
#23
Well, if the primaries are really over, no reason to not turn the timeouts back on.
Warren DeMontague
Apr 2016
#58
I'm guessing the 5 hide won't be turned back on until the primary is declared over which Skinner
seaglass
Apr 2016
#329
I'd rather see the DU'ers who were abusing the jury system get more time to reflect.
KittyWampus
Apr 2016
#355
Take a pleasant stroll around some of the transparency pages in question
Warren DeMontague
Apr 2016
#398
Is that more Brock Dark Talk? Or are you just guessing? Either way, pretty lame.
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#225
Wow, Hilly people love to clutch at pearls inasmuch as it diverts drom the discussion.
R. Daneel Olivaw
Apr 2016
#325
You nailed it. So many people have given up voting. Independents make up the biggest group now.
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#222
the reason he has us "freed from time outs" is because that tiny minority is over represented here
KittyWampus
Apr 2016
#351
I would have to say that I am not surprised to see this from an owner admin.
R. Daneel Olivaw
Apr 2016
#6
Its not an impending "purge" ....it's a personal self administered Enema by those wilfully violating
pkdu
Apr 2016
#40
However ya wanna spin it if ut majes you mite comfortable with the outcome.
R. Daneel Olivaw
Apr 2016
#241
When the hell are the corporate loving conservatives going to start doing that?
TheKentuckian
Apr 2016
#324
Really--and there is that lovely "Discussionist" with no pesky "Support Democrats" TOS.
MADem
Apr 2016
#132
It's not my fault that you jumped in while I was editing--there was almost no time between the
MADem
Apr 2016
#307
Your silence and now your comments are all about denigration of Bernie. Why?
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#237
I am very PROUD of my transparency page--thanks for linking so I didn't have to.
MADem
Apr 2016
#409
because the Democrats supporting Clinton have been too polite to say much about it.
passiveporcupine
Apr 2016
#444
Well, I went through the first three of your hides and only one of them seemed legit
Number23
Apr 2016
#208
Have you tried forming your own political website? I say this in the kindest way possible...
Hekate
Apr 2016
#170
If Skinner starts purging people who dislike-to-despise HRC, he'd have to slash almost all of DU.
Arugula Latte
Apr 2016
#419
Um yeah, my husband and son voted for Sanders in the primary. I have family members
seaglass
Apr 2016
#336
You know damn well that there are outsider elements here manipulating both sides.
onehandle
Apr 2016
#18
This isn't just some regular primary. We are fighting for the soul of our party.
rhett o rick
Apr 2016
#25
I'd rationalize accuracy as something else too were my candidate of choice dependent on it.
LanternWaste
Apr 2016
#363
The ACA is failing. Insurance companies are pulling out of the exchanges. Hello.
rhett o rick
Apr 2016
#46
But some here are working for the side that has put us where we are today.
rhett o rick
Apr 2016
#358
How can you keep trying? His answer, "I'm an optimist." That says it all & nothing at same time.
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#247
It's hard to remain an optimist when our economy keeps sliding backwards
passiveporcupine
Apr 2016
#448
I really think you do not understand the difference between covered and
Luminous Animal
Apr 2016
#209
No, it's succeeding. A single national insurance co dropped out that never was a major player anyway
pnwmom
May 2016
#518
Reminds me of the post we had about a friend going to the ER for a broken arm that cost mega-bucks.
Hekate
Apr 2016
#180
Hey, I'm one of those silly people who LOVE that ACA got passed and signed in any form at all!
Hekate
Apr 2016
#255
So do I get your post as saying we should accept what we've got and shut up?
rhett o rick
Apr 2016
#467
Well, isn't that the point. It isn't working whether because people can't afford or other
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#254
That points out the basic flaw in the ACA -- Private health insurance is a bad business model
Armstead
Apr 2016
#323
The ACA provided health care to me, a person with severe medical conditions.
musicblind
Apr 2016
#140
Thank you for letting us know. I hope the increased access helps you a whole lot.
Hekate
Apr 2016
#183
Wrong. CBO numbers show it is slowing the rate of cost increases. We need to do more, but
pnwmom
May 2016
#519
+1. The soul of the party is exactly right. Very few of the convos here are about who we like
JudyM
Apr 2016
#112
Sadly when we say we are fighting for a fair break for the 99% we get ridiculed.
rhett o rick
Apr 2016
#174
You've 800 posts and been here since march and you are telling us what's for?
rhett o rick
Apr 2016
#179
You don't win if you have to sell your soul. Clinton wants to amass a huge fortune.
rhett o rick
Apr 2016
#195
If anything good came out of it, at least we know for certain who the fakes are.
onecaliberal
Apr 2016
#427
I love my family, friends, the planet. A candidate tepid or agnostic on climate change fucks us over
riderinthestorm
Apr 2016
#36
So having friends is more important than saving the planet, getting kids out of poverty, providing
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#267
I used to live in Nawlins in the early 80's, climate change is gonna be a real drag there
Fumesucker
Apr 2016
#210
Noted that so changed but you saw it too quickly. Like me, you're addicted. :)
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#277
Well, good point. But if the GOP has the Presidency AND Congress, they will be unstoppable.
randome
Apr 2016
#411
There are a whole bunch of people in the ME and Afghanistan who would say different
PaulaFarrell
Apr 2016
#284
You're right in that primaries - save 2012, for obvious reasons - are always ugly as hell here.
Warren DeMontague
Apr 2016
#294
It absolutely cannot be said any more perfectly than you just said it. Every word.
arcane1
Apr 2016
#62
Ya, and one of those hides. A Sanders supported jury, just as Joe stated. Nt
seabeyond
Apr 2016
#343
Every once in a while one post catches your eye, stark in its realness...authenticity.
RiverLover
Apr 2016
#71
Agreed. It did not go unnoticed who was allowed to return with lots o hides. Not Bernie supporters
corkhead
Apr 2016
#111
Says you who attack new members here both as paid trolls and on personal levels...
nolawarlock
Apr 2016
#125
Suggestion, Sir: Go ahead and "call it", but reinstate the timeouts for those w/transparency showing
Warren DeMontague
Apr 2016
#54
This campaign has tested my identity as a lifetime Dem. That never happened before.
leveymg
Apr 2016
#66
It wouldn't be nearly as interesting. Preaching to each other would get old fast.
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#287
Okay, I'll have to admit I enjoy a little verbal fisticuffs myself, but around here
senz
Apr 2016
#309
Appeal to his financial side and join me in asking him for a new site *Progressive Underground*
JimDandy
Apr 2016
#163
Setting up a site that directly challenges a Hillary presidency that would likely
Luminous Animal
Apr 2016
#224
I've found, to my horror, that some "committed progressives" are all too willing to
MADem
Apr 2016
#85
Did you read the article? It was balanced fairly between both Sanders and Clinton supporters. n/t
musicblind
Apr 2016
#157
IIRC you're happy to vote for HRC in the election. You're a HRC supporter now.
aikoaiko
Apr 2016
#319
If she makes it to the general, of course I will support her. I support the democratic party.
musicblind
Apr 2016
#441
Either way Skinner's article in the OP is still heavily weighted against Bernie's supporters.
aikoaiko
Apr 2016
#446
That's why that poster thought it was unfair, because it wasn't biased towards Bernie
stevenleser
Apr 2016
#451
Are you saying that you are unaware of any specific lies that Hillary has told?
Doctor_J
Apr 2016
#141
My whole family and my friends are all for Bernie, so that was not a problem for us.
JimDandy
Apr 2016
#106
why not just go to jackpine radicals? A poster suggested that for me . . . or will I be hidden now?
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#295
There will be a big change at JP soon. We are moving to a more user friendly software.
Autumn
Apr 2016
#432
I had the devils own time getting used to that software and I still only reply.
Autumn
Apr 2016
#457
Oh please, those were some nasty ass comments and they are there to see courtesty
Bluenorthwest
Apr 2016
#439
Why all the anti-Bernie graphics? Mean spirited? Kind of in-your-face isn't it?
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#389
Perhaps it is because some individuals are made up entirely of invective and snark:
Bluenorthwest
Apr 2016
#338
Why not go to Discussionist? All bets are off over there, and you can muster your
MADem
Apr 2016
#263
Seems like a good destination for conservatives. You all can discuss the evils of "free stuff",
TheKentuckian
Apr 2016
#340
It's a free for all over there--all bets are off. Uber-left/Ultra-right, it's all good in that yard.
MADem
Apr 2016
#415
Absolutely serious. There is a clear fracture line in the Dem party now and on DU
JimDandy
Apr 2016
#218
Good reply. Totally accurate. Right-leaning and passive-aggressive. A lot of that in HRC grps.
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#299
You have a legacy to be proud of. I'm looking at here and now and that's what I see.
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#388
If you lost a friendship over the primary I need to know your definition of "friendship"
UMTerp01
Apr 2016
#135
"The people who came to hate each other over the Democratic primary are a small...
herding cats
Apr 2016
#149
Some people need to grow up. I have friends that are Trump supporters. Friendship is
jillan
Apr 2016
#156
In the first sentence I can tell this BS supporter doesn't know what he's talking about .. who knew?
Cha
Apr 2016
#173
Me either. One of my closest friends is a Republican. A Log Cabin Republican at that.
Luminous Animal
Apr 2016
#188
I can't imagine being a Republican and having to choose between "Lucifer" Cruz and Trump the buffoon
Beacool
Apr 2016
#190
I've been trying to convince him to change his party affiliation to unaffiliated before the
Luminous Animal
Apr 2016
#200
See, we can all come together after the primaries is over to support the candidate that we like!
akbacchus_BC
Apr 2016
#248
K & R. I've tried to take some solace in noticing that most of the truly belligerent feces-throwers
Maru Kitteh
Apr 2016
#192
Disagree. Taft was clearly progressive, but more conservative than the other two.
andym
May 2016
#524
But skinner didn't stand by and do nothing. He opened the gates for the HRC supporters
R. Daneel Olivaw
Apr 2016
#280
Oh, perhaps bigotry on the part of those who aren't in the majority on DU
R. Daneel Olivaw
Apr 2016
#326
That person you're responding towas a victim of the jury system to the point they got a timeout once
Capt. Obvious
Apr 2016
#370
Nope, and you created a straw man in your attempt to accuse Nance of using a logical fallacy
stevenleser
Apr 2016
#471
On the contrary, this primary has restored lost friendships with many of my RW family members
tularetom
Apr 2016
#260
What a read. Two things: task analyzers and relational bloggers; if graphics matter, HRC most rude
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#308
You are describing "institutional memory." Now that I'm older, I see how fast it can be lost.
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#404
Is it just a label for you? Don't you care that your party has moved so far right?
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#405
Takes time to wind down. Teams represent principles and values. It is intense. Shouldn't it be?
snowy owl
Apr 2016
#406
How disappointed would you be if 1/4 of your Democrat friends gave up and decided to support Kasich?
Attorney in Texas
Apr 2016
#424
With Sanders supporters controlling juries that's the equivalent of two hides
stevenleser
Apr 2016
#466
Yep, and they are the first to cry "censorship" if something nasty gets hidden- but alert stalk
bettyellen
Apr 2016
#499
And the irony is, in order for a Sanders supporter to get something hidden, at least two
stevenleser
Apr 2016
#506