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2016 Postmortem

MissB

(15,803 posts)

6. Yeah I had a manager that used to do that.

Reply to tonyt53 (Original post)

Fri Oct 14, 2016, 01:19 PM

Oct 2016

We found it inappropriate as hell. I didn't let him get near me. One woman was too polite so he rubbed her shoulders often.

He's no longer here. If he came back, many people would quit. I've run into him professionally over the years and I still struggle with being nice to him.

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As my wife and I were watching some of both MSNBC and CNN last night, something hit me. [View all] tonyt53 Oct 2016 OP

20 sec mark JHB Oct 2016 #1

i had forgot about her reaction. lord have mercy n/t. okieinpain Oct 2016 #10

I think... Mike Nelson Oct 2016 #2

You know, I worked for 40+ years and NEVER had anyone do that to me. napi21 Oct 2016 #3

Remember Bush and the President of Germany? katmondoo Oct 2016 #4

They do it to show dominance, your discomfort is justified Maru Kitteh Oct 2016 #5

Yeah I had a manager that used to do that. MissB Oct 2016 #6

Your post is what keeps me coming back to DU. displacedtexan Oct 2016 #7

There was a guy who used to work in our office who did this all the time Dem2 Oct 2016 #8

I've had it done to me by a male manager TlalocW Oct 2016 #9

Guy was probably closeted. brush Oct 2016 #11

No, I don't think he was closeted. Just used physical intimidation on both sexes TlalocW Oct 2016 #14

I hate having anyone get physically close to me csziggy Oct 2016 #12

In our company's sexual harassment training this is specifically mentioned.... CajunBlazer Oct 2016 #13