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2016 Postmortem

In reply to the discussion: The 5 stages of grief [View all]

CajunBlazer

(5,648 posts)
9. You are certainly not alone
Thu Nov 17, 2016, 02:11 PM
Nov 2016

I am totally still in denial. I find myself doing stuff like checking my garden, and suddenly I will think about the election and that Trump actually won, but my mind rebels and labels such stupidity as impossible. Of course reality quickly asserts itself, but the same think keeps happening again and again.

Anger, definitely! But it is kind of a free floating anger that is yet to attach itself to anyone or anything except for the monster himself. Other possible targets for my anger keep popping up in my mind, but they are so many, my anger can't be properly directed to anyone of them. I certainly blame the deplorable who were motivated by racism, hatred and misogyny. I also blame the ignorant who refused to take the time to educate themselves so they could have debunk his lies and because they were willing to overlook a myriad of his atrocities that would have normally totally disqualified any Presidential candidate. But how I can I effectually direct my anger at tens of millions of faceless individuals?

Bargaining has begun in my case. I am starting take some solace in the fact that Trump will have great difficulty in enacting his agenda and that failure is certainly possible. I also starting to consider that Trump has totally destroyed any chance the Republicans of attracting the fastest growing demographic, Hispanics, AA's and single women, going forward.

Depression, I have had some taste of that, but If I can help it I don't plan wallow in that state.

Acceptance: I don't ever plan to enter this state,though I guess it is inevitable. However, I don't think it will ever be possible to use the word President and the mad man's name in the same subject.

The 5 stages of grief [View all] NRaleighLiberal Nov 2016 OP
No. gademocrat7 Nov 2016 #1
I'm already at acceptance, but depression hasn't left. Dr Hobbitstein Nov 2016 #2
Anger and depression, Seedersandleechers Nov 2016 #3
I'm stuck right where you are. SaveOurDemocracy Nov 2016 #4
I am in fighting mode.. not where that falls... boston bean Nov 2016 #5
3 out of 5.. SamIam715 Nov 2016 #6
The first five days each morning when I woke it was my first thought. herding cats Nov 2016 #7
No. tallahasseedem Nov 2016 #8
You are certainly not alone CajunBlazer Nov 2016 #9
Get some exercise. athena Nov 2016 #10
Oh, I (we -my wife and I) do - walk our dogs a few miles twice each day NRaleighLiberal Nov 2016 #11
Sorry, I can't solve Trump. athena Nov 2016 #18
. NRaleighLiberal Nov 2016 #22
Just remember, acceptance in this case does not mean shrug and go on... haele Nov 2016 #12
well said...thanks. NRaleighLiberal Nov 2016 #13
I threw up when I saw Trump had won on election night. CTyankee Nov 2016 #14
I've "accepted" although I will use that term loosely and I'm ready to fight. TrekLuver Nov 2016 #15
Trying to move on to Resistance! here. redwitch Nov 2016 #16
Right now, I'm at anger and bargaining meow2u3 Nov 2016 #17
I was going to see a woman president last week for the first time in a lifetime. yallerdawg Nov 2016 #19
seeing plenty of angry denial nashville_brook Nov 2016 #20
Anger and Dread Martin Eden Nov 2016 #21
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