Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
2. i had no interest in dating a man who did not work. the amount of money was never important.
Fri Sep 21, 2012, 11:29 AM
Sep 2012

him being able to take care of himself was important. just as i expected me to take care of myself. it was not a matter of him paying my way. i never allowed that. but, i was not going ot pay his way either.

i do not get this argument, personally.

we all have our standards. mine was being able to take care of self.

if a man doesnt want me cause i have kids. i get it. and thanks for being honest. certainly would not be healthy for my kids.

if a man did not want me cause he wanted a young thing, thanks for being honest. there are tons of men that hang with women their age. why would i want that disrespect projected toward me.

meh... to the whole issue.

Recommendations

0 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

Latest Discussions»Alliance Forums»History of Feminism»Have you ever seen an art...»Reply #2