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seabeyond

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11. could get people addressing their basic need of 'need'

Tue Oct 2, 2012, 09:13 AM

Oct 2012

i went thru a period learning how to "surrender". let go of the things i needed to.

not surrender in the victim weak.

but a funny along the way in this process. they biggest eye opener was surrendering to surrender.

because we condition that surrendering is a bad thing, when in reality, done grounded and balanced it is the healthiest. so stop fighting the surrending.

kinda like your addressing the basic need of need.

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Male Asexuality and Its Challenge to Masculinity [View all] seabeyond Sep 2012 OP

Game, set, match. MadrasT Sep 2012 #1

i thought it was in this article, but i could not find it when perusing. seabeyond Sep 2012 #4

Amazing outsideworld Sep 2012 #2

you are welcome. seabeyond Sep 2012 #5

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Basic Instincts MysticLynx Oct 2012 #10

could get people addressing their basic need of 'need' seabeyond Oct 2012 #11

Simplistic basic drives? ChaoticTrilby Oct 2012 #12

i hadnt thought of it in this manner. interesting. lack of desire is how i defined asexual. seabeyond Oct 2012 #13

No offense meant MysticLynx Oct 2012 #14

No worries! ChaoticTrilby Oct 2012 #15

We still flirt ismnotwasm Sep 2012 #7

Yet troubled marriage boards are full of them One_Life_To_Give Oct 2012 #8

i think back to younger ages, and there was not this all incompassing awesome seabeyond Oct 2012 #9