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boston bean

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Tue May 1, 2012, 09:37 AM
May 2012

Here is the OP for this thread. Locking as we have pinned the Group SOP.

Member Discussion ~ SOP (Statement of Purpose) [View all]
Last edited Thu Apr 5, 2012, 04:54 PM USA/ET - Edit history (2)

Hello to All Members,

I want to Welcome you aboard! I am very excited and pleased that we have a new group and a place to meet and learn and discuss issues that are important to us.

I would like to first, take a moment to apologize to everyone for my absence in the group since it was set up. It was just very bad timing for me personally. My father, aged 61, passed away very unexpectedly on March 26, and mine and my families life has been turned upside down. We are working our way through this very difficult time.

It helps that my father was a very loving, decent man who left us with many good memories and touched many lives. He lived life to it's fullest and loved his grandchildren more than anything. He was a family man through and through, and his presence in our life will be missed terribly. If he had a choice he would have never left us. But he would want us to continue on to be there fully for our children. He would want us to miss him though, he was a bit of a baby sometime, . So, I guess it's time to try to get back in the swing of things a bit. And believe it or not, it really does help to try and keep your mind busy.

So, with all that said, I think it's time to open up a bit of discussion for the group. I believe I might be able to give some time and attention to this myself.

As you all know, or should know, I do not intend to remain the unelected host of this group. At some point in the near future, when the group has its bearings, we will hold elections. As you know, mine, violets and hlthe2b thoughts were to be sure that all supporting members knew that this group was not to be run in a top down fashion.

We would like all members to have input into how we would like our community to be run. We do have a lot of unfinished business to tend to, like group rules, host rules and host elections and discussion surrounding the SOP.

I think it might be best if we started with some discussion surrounding the SOP.

How do you feel about SOP? Is there anything you would like to change? Is there anything you feel needs to be added to it? Any other concern or suggestions?

Once we come up with changes/build upon the current SOP, we will pin that to the top of the forum.

Here is the text of the SOP as it stands now:


The History of Feminism group serves as a safe haven to discuss, and learn the history of feminism. Apply the lessons of historical and modern day feminist struggles to current issues and events that impact women. This group will also serve as safe haven for women (and supporters of feminism) to openly and honestly discuss and learn how the patriarchy affects women individually and collectively.


Please discuss... be open and honest, say what you mean and what you want.

Thank you,
BB

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i will be open and honest and... lol, seabeyond Apr 2012 #1
I agree sea. boston bean Apr 2012 #2
don't want to be too fenced in that people aren't saying what they want or need seabeyond Apr 2012 #3
good way to put it. boston bean Apr 2012 #4
ditto that TorchTheWitch Apr 2012 #23
Very good SOP! Tumbulu Apr 2012 #5
Thanks for responding Tumbulu! boston bean Apr 2012 #6
I somehow missed this thread... redqueen Apr 2012 #7
Thank you redqueen. boston bean Apr 2012 #8
I like the SOP and can't think of anything to add to it... Violet_Crumble Apr 2012 #9
Good point Violet. boston bean Apr 2012 #10
I agree with you Violet_C.... So far seems not to be a problem hlthe2b Apr 2012 #11
(i.e., giving each other benefit of the doubt) seabeyond Apr 2012 #12
Hear, hear. Little Star Apr 2012 #13
I like it. MuseRider Apr 2012 #14
I think that the "safe haven" nature of the group could be a little more well-defined. laconicsax Apr 2012 #15
+1 Little Star Apr 2012 #17
I think we should make it clear that disruption isn't welcome. BlueIris Apr 2012 #16
i really feel this way, too seabeyond Apr 2012 #18
Just to clarify, I was in no way suggesting obvious misgoyny/disruption be given "benefit of doubt" hlthe2b Apr 2012 #19
Okay, good. BlueIris Apr 2012 #20
Agreed. I'd add the denial of the existence of male privilege redqueen Apr 2012 #21
Hi BB and everyone MadrasT Apr 2012 #22
one suggestion... TorchTheWitch Apr 2012 #24
I think that is a good idea... so having possibly read your post first, I'm going to pin it... hlthe2b Apr 2012 #25
one little suggestion iverglas Apr 2012 #26
upside, downside seabeyond Apr 2012 #27
I'm confused about what the upside is TorchTheWitch Apr 2012 #28
Wouldn't having those posts on that page help people to find this forum and participate? seabeyond Apr 2012 #29
I suppose the really problematic ones iverglas Apr 2012 #30
that happened to me seabeyond Apr 2012 #31
oh, I see TorchTheWitch Apr 2012 #32
we could look, lol. nothing to be done. but sometimes people read subject line seabeyond Apr 2012 #33
there have been a few examples of the problem here lately iverglas Apr 2012 #34
I don't see that there is a problem... Violet_Crumble Apr 2012 #35
personally, i enjoyed the seabeyond Apr 2012 #36
well, there we are iverglas Apr 2012 #38
I'm still not seeing where the problem is that needs to be addressed.... Violet_Crumble Apr 2012 #40
The hosts of ASAH (Astrology, Spirituality, Alternative Health) have been able to keep Tumbulu Apr 2012 #41
I agree with VC and seabeyond. MadrasT Apr 2012 #37
maybe more so for people like me who haven't already been fighting the fight for decades. seabeyond Apr 2012 #39
Strongly agree. nt redqueen Apr 2012 #42
I guess I am on a different page iverglas Apr 2012 #43
you are right iverglas. that is the point. seabeyond Apr 2012 #44
a request iverglas Apr 2012 #45
Yep. redqueen Apr 2012 #46
say thanks! iverglas Apr 2012 #47
Sweet. MadrasT Apr 2012 #48
sigh.... seabeyond Apr 2012 #50
I almost got in the middle of that bullshit 3 times MadrasT Apr 2012 #52
I stayed right out ... and came here ;) iverglas Apr 2012 #54
Good call. MadrasT Apr 2012 #57
thanks. that is how i often see it seabeyond Apr 2012 #55
Thanks! redqueen Apr 2012 #49
btw... on one of the juries i sent thru, the reason the said leave it seabeyond Apr 2012 #51
Juries thrive on excuses. laconicsax Apr 2012 #53
or bitchy snot rocket... lol ya, i know. nt seabeyond Apr 2012 #56
The bulk of all the offensive crap that stays up BlueIris Apr 2012 #59
One of several groups to deserve that description. laconicsax Apr 2012 #61
Probably. BlueIris Apr 2012 #62
I don't bother with the juries anymore. BlueIris Apr 2012 #58
true that. so very true. seabeyond Apr 2012 #60
another request iverglas Apr 2012 #63
message boston bean May 2012 #64
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