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In reply to the discussion: Why should I speak up? [View all]

ismnotwasm

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16. It can do a number of things
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 04:05 PM
Mar 2013

A will to fight, a curiosity as to 'why' (often leading you straight to feminism) A type of Stockholm syndrome, and as you say, a deadened spirit. I believe it causes broader socital damage as well.

While I agree with you---I think men should take the larger responsibility-- I also understand being seeped in male privilege from birth makes it difficult to understand what is or is not sexist. Men often try to invoke 'reverse sexism' comments about males or male body parts as equal in power and effect, not understanding the dominant power structure of patriarchy.

What's bothersome and sometimes horrifying is the denial when it's not some sort of subtle sexism, but blatant in your face undeniable misogyny. That's what we've been seeing lately, given the number of 'voices' that can be heard.

But there are a number of men and men's groups who are fighting against this, slowly men and women are starting to recognize this as a global problem, one first world nations have more than their share of, instead of just looking at despotic regimes or radical Islamic groups, or countries like India. It's us, all of us, all over the world.

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Why should I speak up? [View all] seabeyond Mar 2013 OP
In the words of a "Metric" song, Helen Reddy Mar 2013 #1
There are a variety of ways not-to-yawn, some of which may work better than others. nt patrice Mar 2013 #3
i have tried them all. and when someone wants to be sexist, doesnt matter. they will continue seabeyond Mar 2013 #4
Yep. n/t Helen Reddy Mar 2013 #5
This. nt redqueen Mar 2013 #8
Is it possible that actual research shows that telling people not to say stuff doesn't work? patrice Mar 2013 #2
Calling out the language which is the outward tell boston bean Mar 2013 #6
It works for me. ismnotwasm Mar 2013 #7
Excellent post. redqueen Mar 2013 #9
would you post the link to that article? niyad Mar 2013 #10
It's actually the blogger Redqueen turned many of us on too. ismnotwasm Mar 2013 #12
thank you, and thank redqueen niyad Mar 2013 #13
sorry, when I hear sexist, ignorant, woman-hating, bigoted crap, I am going to say something. niyad Mar 2013 #11
Men have the biggest responsibility to call other men out because we are responsible for Arcanetrance Mar 2013 #14
i agree with you. it is a mans responsibility. seabeyond Mar 2013 #15
It can do a number of things ismnotwasm Mar 2013 #16
The recent rape stories in the two high schools show that first world sexism can be just as bad i Arcanetrance Mar 2013 #17
There is an active thread right now going on about that ismnotwasm Mar 2013 #18
though the people that are saying this refuse to listen to those that are from that area and tell seabeyond Mar 2013 #19
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