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History of Feminism

ismnotwasm

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23. What the woman said

Reply to seabeyond (Reply #22)

Tue May 14, 2013, 09:09 AM

May 2013

Was to the effect "he'd already started and they just wanted it over with" it says something about women's sexual agency, that they didn't feel empowered to tell him to 'get the fuck off me' because of previous sexual contact. A way you slice it, he comes off as a creepy bastard at BEST.

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Assange and Steubenville: Excusing Rape [View all] BainsBane May 2013 OP

Honestly, I have always had trouble seeing Assange as an altruist, in ANY way, let alone a hero. nt patrice May 2013 #1

Thank you MAD Dave May 2013 #2

Well said! riqster May 2013 #3

Thanks BainsBane May 2013 #5

I have found the differing attitudes about these events to be troubling. Arkansas Granny May 2013 #4

It is exactly rape culture ismnotwasm May 2013 #6

I think there is a point separate from whether the Wikileaks BainsBane May 2013 #8

I agree, I was hesitant to post that here ismnotwasm May 2013 #10

I appreciate the link though BainsBane May 2013 #9

i totally agree with all you say, even the part that you took out. for me, seabeyond May 2013 #21

I see similarities. MadrasT May 2013 #7

K&R n/t discntnt_irny_srcsm May 2013 #11

I do not agree with the personal attacks but now both women have stated that they were not raped. Luminous Animal May 2013 #12

That's not true BainsBane May 2013 #13

I am not sure what you are claiming is untue. Luminous Animal May 2013 #14

the state doesn't bring charges without a complainant BainsBane May 2013 #15

Isn't he still in the Ecuadorian embassy in London? ismnotwasm May 2013 #16

Let me rephrase that. Your link leads people to believe that Luminous Animal May 2013 #17

Then he should go face charges ismnotwasm May 2013 #19

thanks for typing it all out. that is how i see it also. also, at one point he "held down" a woman seabeyond May 2013 #22

What the woman said ismnotwasm May 2013 #23

I am not fully apprised of the Swedish system but the state certainly does bring charges without a Luminous Animal May 2013 #18

thank you bains. you are right on. i believe there is just one poster on du that continually seabeyond May 2013 #20