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iverglas

(38,549 posts)
17. why are you here?
Sun May 13, 2012, 02:34 PM
May 2012

Why are you persisting in speaking this way to a member of a protected group?

You had one reason to post here: to inform members that a post had been alerted on and passed by a jury. Excellent.

You took the opportunity to make a claim about the subject of this thread itself. Your claim contradicts the thesis of the article the thread is about and the experience of many women. Given that this is the experience of many women, your claim contradicts the statement that expresses the intent of this group. Have you got around to reading it yet?

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=about&forum=1255

The History of Feminism group serves as a safe haven to discuss, and learn the history of feminism. Apply the lessons of historical and modern day feminist struggles to current issues and events that impact women. This group will also serve as safe haven for women (and supporters of feminism) to openly and honestly discuss and learn how the patriarchy affects women individually and collectively.

I can tell you how your posts are inconsistent with that statement. Can you tell me how they are consistent?

Have you bothered to read the post pinned at the top of the forum?

http://www.democraticunderground.com/12551799

There are some very basic rules all participants are expected to follow:

1) No bringing personal fights/issues/problems from other groups or past grievances with a particular member or members to this group
2) No posting jury results
3) No individual personal call outs of any DUer
4) Be respectful at all times, even if an opinion is at odds with that of another poster
5) No bullying
6) Repeated violation of the rules or a refusal to adhere to them when approached by hosts will result in being blocked from the group.

Leaving aside (2), how does your post to me reflect the letter, let alone the spirit, of (4) and (5)? How does a post doing nothing but calling a member of the group "obnoxious" do that? How does responding to posts seeking an explanation of your remarks by repeated one-liners claiming to have won something amount to the kind of sincere discussion that is obviously expected of participants in this protected group's forum?

Please do not reply again to my posts unless you are prepared to address the subject matter of this thread and the claims you have made about the thesis presented. Personal invective is of no interest to me and has no place here.

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Haha, a male friend of mine told me about klook May 2012 #1
I think the behavior is socialized early on. Look at boys in the classroom... hlthe2b May 2012 #12
My future ex mansplained Control-Z May 2012 #2
I just voted to NOT hide this thread on a jury. Gore1FL May 2012 #3
why is it important to say that in the History of Feminism group? iverglas May 2012 #4
Thanks for missing the point and being other than nice about it! n/t Gore1FL May 2012 #5
I'm sorry, but it appears to me that you are the one who missed the point iverglas May 2012 #7
Nevermind. Gore1FL May 2012 #10
fwiw, I didn't think you were attacking anyone either... Violet_Crumble May 2012 #11
"and being obnoxious about it" iverglas May 2012 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author Violet_Crumble May 2012 #22
again iverglas May 2012 #15
You've already proven my point. n/t Gore1FL May 2012 #16
why are you here? iverglas May 2012 #17
Because you keep insisting on elongating an argument that you already lost. n/t Gore1FL May 2012 #18
I'm going to assume best intentions on this subthread & have already done so with respect to hlthe2b May 2012 #19
I believe he was attempting Control-Z May 2012 #20
ah iverglas May 2012 #21
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you are a man, i am a b and they say we are ugly? oh me. oh my. lol seabeyond May 2012 #32
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I've seen you do this to other posters Texasgal May 2012 #35
Post removed Post removed May 2012 #38
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and just out of curiosity iverglas May 2012 #40
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I appreciate your bringing this to our attention. That someone would think such a post SHOULD be hlthe2b May 2012 #13
Oh, GMAFB! klook May 2012 #23
"... by indicating, the way harassment on the street does, iverglas May 2012 #6
There is something very wrong Control-Z May 2012 #8
The privileged rarely understand that they don't belong everywhere. laconicsax May 2012 #9
since this thread has gone to hell in a handbasket anyway iverglas May 2012 #43
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