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Showing Original Post only (View all)Study: Men secretly feel terrible when the women they love succeed [View all]
According to a new study, men experience a blow to their self-esteem when their female partners experience success, even when they arent in direct competition. Womens success also negatively impacts how men view the future of the relationship, researchers found.
There is an idea that women are allowed to bask in the reflected glory of her male partner and to be the woman behind the successful man, but the reverse is not true for men, says study co-author Kate Ratliff of the University of Florida.
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http://www.salon.com/2013/08/30/study_men_secretly_feel_terrible_when_the_women_they_love_succeed/
There is an idea that women are allowed to bask in the reflected glory of her male partner and to be the woman behind the successful man, but the reverse is not true for men, says study co-author Kate Ratliff of the University of Florida.
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http://www.salon.com/2013/08/30/study_men_secretly_feel_terrible_when_the_women_they_love_succeed/
It will be interesting to see the results of any follow-up studies done on this phenomenon. These results are based on five separate experiments, some in the US, some in the Netherlands, and some online. Also, most participants were younger adults.
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this society is really doing a poor job of rearing its young, to be this messed up.
niyad
Aug 2013
#3
i do not think that she was calling your expression a delusion, but that a mate would see
seabeyond
Aug 2013
#14
hmmmm, it is ONLY used on women regardless of whether it is a legitimate disagreement to dismiss
seabeyond
Aug 2013
#33
Cool, but I hear it often . On du. Mainstream media and almost every pimply faced teenage
seabeyond
Aug 2013
#37
thinking further, i also think it is very real that a man is conditioned as the provider
seabeyond
Aug 2013
#16
i had been running a business when i met my husband. had been for five years.
seabeyond
Aug 2013
#20
The delusion is that these men think they're in competition with *their romantic partners*.
redqueen
Aug 2013
#22
that would also clearly suggest the hate, blazing hate we see toward women today.
seabeyond
Aug 2013
#21
exactly. adn that is the real crying shame of it all. it may lessen the woman or the need to
seabeyond
Aug 2013
#29
Men are conditioned to think this way, that professional success is the primary measure
geek tragedy
Sep 2013
#41
until recently, men exclusively made more than women. it is a norm, expected and almost always,
seabeyond
Sep 2013
#56
good to know. i probably agree with you more than not. i think it is important to recognize
seabeyond
Sep 2013
#59