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redqueen

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31. Oh I agree completely.
Wed Jul 11, 2012, 05:21 PM
Jul 2012

The disclaimers are automatic at this point, because the accusations are that commonplace. So to avoid it, many just throw it out there before they say anything else, as if that could ever even work.

I saw the most amusing deconstruction of it regarding criticism of porn. The idea that before anyone can dare criticize that sacred cow, one must first state that ... Well here I'll just post it again.

I'm pretty tired of any feminist critique of porn, in order for it to be seen as valid, the author is expected to like pornography and heartily endorse it in a disclaimer. The happy, fun, consent-filled, queer and woman-friendly stuff we see on the internet is a rarity compared to the hateful (not a strong enough word) disgusting and degrading reality that is the whole picture. Say you have a pizza, and 14 out of 16 slices are covered in broken glass and dog shit, but two slices are cheesy and perfectly delicious. If I'm reviewing it, should I have to make some statement about how great those pieces fit for human consumption were? Should I support Pope Benedicto's Dog Shit N Broken Glass Pizza Parlour because they manage to make two edible slices of pizza per pie? It not only distorts the reality of the situation, but also seriously diminishes the pain and suffering of the vast majority of human beings who've actually been through it (eaten pizza/been involved in the pornography industry.)

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The comments on that article are great. n/t lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #1
Yeah. Great. MadrasT Jul 2012 #2
Post removed Post removed Jul 2012 #7
"Most violence in the home is initiated by women, and the main victims are the children." JTFrog Jul 2012 #13
. seabeyond Jul 2012 #14
The idea that women are responsible for most domestic violence redqueen Jul 2012 #15
good mens project is interesting seabeyond Jul 2012 #16
Most men don't recognize the reality of male privege or the patriarchy. redqueen Jul 2012 #19
This particular piece in the OP was written by Amanda Marcotte. boston bean Jul 2012 #17
This is a decent summary. redqueen Jul 2012 #18
That does explain a lot. Thank you. boston bean Jul 2012 #20
I'm sure there's still good stuff there... redqueen Jul 2012 #21
I have seen MRA's claim that domestic violence is frequenty women's fault MadrasT Jul 2012 #22
did you forget this, perchance? mzteris Jul 2012 #38
"Russian bride weirdness". what is that. i am hearing this way too often. seabeyond Jul 2012 #3
That is the idea MadrasT Jul 2012 #4
i dont know about russian women, i have an idea, but the asian women i know seabeyond Jul 2012 #5
Sheeeit MadrasT Jul 2012 #6
princesses..... is what i hear. seabeyond Jul 2012 #9
Not sure how it is in most Asian countries, redqueen Jul 2012 #8
i know decades ago, in the 70's seabeyond Jul 2012 #10
*snort* MadrasT Jul 2012 #11
"Target market FAIL." bah hahaha seabeyond Jul 2012 #12
Now I have MadrasT Jul 2012 #23
Explore TOP Latin singles! MadrasT Jul 2012 #24
Thanks, DU. Nice to have my objectification delivered to me right here seabeyond Jul 2012 #25
Reading one of the comments has me wondering Broderick Jul 2012 #26
absolutely. good point. i wish women would stop. like, all the accusations hurled seabeyond Jul 2012 #27
Yes. We do get distracted by those derailments sometimes. MadrasT Jul 2012 #28
I think you've touched on a huge part of the problem. redqueen Jul 2012 #29
I understand what you are saying completely Broderick Jul 2012 #30
Oh I agree completely. redqueen Jul 2012 #31
i love that. but, it also goes along witht he discussion of strippin and prostitutin seabeyond Jul 2012 #33
Another one of those things Broderick Jul 2012 #35
No, we shouldn't have to. redqueen Jul 2012 #37
If that was your deconstruction post Broderick Jul 2012 #34
Oh no, it wasn't mine. redqueen Jul 2012 #36
one side has to "win" and one side has to "lose" that taints so many discussions. seabeyond Jul 2012 #32
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