women, please tell your experience. some men do not get it. 19, 10pm, college campus

[caseymoz]

25. Guys can convince themselves . . .

. . . that if you're not saying yes, it's because they aren't trying hard enough. Really, that's the mentality. That's especially bad if they've experienced some sexual success and think they've figured out "the move" and try it on another woman and, guess what? It doesn't work. Then they're thinking, "Why isn't this working? It worked on Amy." Then they're left standing there with egg on their face, trying harder, getting frustrated, and saying all kinds of mean, embarrassing and pathetic things. Meanwhile, they treat the female like a soda machine that just stole their change.

The problem really is that males don't try to understand it from the female's POV. In the awful old days, guys, used to say you can never understand a woman. That's not said aloud very often these days, but guys believe it. As a result, they don't even try. They don't even look, and they end up with a lot of anger against women as a result.