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In reply to the discussion: Mommy vs. media in sexualization of girls: Where are the dads? [View all]chaska
(6,794 posts)27. The role of the father is to protect the girl from predatory men.
All men are predatory to some degree. There would be no reproduction without this instinct/impulse. And that won't change.
Where we went wrong is destruction of the family unit. You can name your own reasons for that. But there is an absolutely crucial role for fathers and we make a huge mistake by allowing ourselves the illusion that they are not important.
Forgive my non-pc-ness here but we need to bring back shame. Shame along with community in general is dying in our society in particular and in the world in general. It needs to return. Single motherhood is not acceptable. Divorce - and marriage - needs to be a lot tougher to get.
Hey Redqueen, s'been a while. Hope you're doing well.
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And also possible to assume that the "handicap" of being a single parent is why things are
patrice
Aug 2012
#59
not only so the boy can have repsect, and we talk about that often in our house
seabeyond
Aug 2012
#68
not really. a lot of men feel it is part of their manhood, biology, that they gotta and
seabeyond
Aug 2012
#24
my kids were not big tv watchers. my niece would turn on disney with tween shows.
seabeyond
Aug 2012
#39
oh bullshit. that is in line with father to husband crap and not the reality. better
seabeyond
Aug 2012
#29
not really. simple logic. tough for some. what is the problem, that a girl be allowed
seabeyond
Aug 2012
#77
who are the ones that come back from the dead, zombies? when they hit HOF first
seabeyond
Aug 2012
#83