History of Feminism
In reply to the discussion: women, please tell your experience. some men do not get it. 19, 10pm, college campus [View all]redqueen
(115,186 posts)He works there so I'd see him regularly. We'd talk about kids, traveling, etc. Then one day he was like a different person. He came and sat next to me where I was reading my book. He interrupted me which I hate that to begin with, and started telling me how sexy I was to him. Those were his exact words. Maybe he'd been drinking, I dunno. Anyway he interrupted my reading to say it more than once so I just got up and moved and waited and read elsewhere. As I was leaving though, he held the door open for me and stopped me to apologize. He said he was sorry if he offended me or made me uncomfortable and I said he did. Then he goes further and asks but why? I said maybe if you were in a position to get inappropriate comments like that from strangers you'd understand. Then the jerk doubles down and tells me what it is about me that he likes so much, while staring at that body part. I got pissed and said... Oh hell now that I think back I realize this was a dumb thing to say, but I was so, so uncomfortable... I said that I'd tell my boyfriend that he approved and just stormed off. I was so pissed and upset. And there's another detail I left out cause it's just too awful.