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[Tuesday Afternoon]

121. ok. understood and agreed the discussion should take place in Meta. There is a thread over there.

link to a post with suggestions made --

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1240176358#post14

and here is how it was worded on DU2:
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Do not post messages that are bigoted against (or grossly insensitive toward) any person or group of people based on their race, gender, sexual orientation, ethnicity, religion, lack of religion, disability, physical characteristics, or region of residence.

While specific words are not automatically forbidden, members should avoid using racist, sexist, homophobic, or otherwise bigoted terminology. This includes gender-specific terms such as "bitch," "cunt," "whore," "slut," or "pussy," and terms with homophobic derivation, such as "cocksucker," which are often inflammatory and inappropriate. One common exception is the use of the phrase "media whore," which is permitted.