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Chalco

(1,307 posts)
23. Me, too!
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 12:57 PM
Jan 2019

Saw the movie two days ago. I started crying mid-way through and didn't stop.

I was born in the late 40's and was somewhat unaware of the degree of legal discrimination women went through. I
was certainly aware of discrimination and sexual harassment.

I wanted to go to college. My father said, "No man will ever have you if you go to college." I went anyway. He refused
to pay. I worked and paid for myself. When I got my Ph.D. no family member came to my graduation. We all went to
my brother's when he got his M.D.

I believed that it was important for me as a woman to be able to support myself financially if I ever got married so I
could leave if I ever wanted to. I didn't want to be dependent on a man.

It was hard to find a man because of the Ph.D. Men wanted to marry beneath them. I eventually married a man who
liked that I was smart. He wasn't intimidated by it.

My favorite song of all time is the current release by Brynn Elliott called Might Not Like Me [link:

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Whenever we have friends over we play that song and dance. Check it out!
They need to be taught about it in history class shenmue Jan 2019 #1
Those of us of a certain age experienced many incidents like that - The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2019 #2
And my story is almost exactly the same as yours. SharonAnn Jan 2019 #3
I was too. I worked 30 years for IBM. And they started married men sinkingfeeling Jan 2019 #4
Today's women take their human rights for granted - at their own peril CousinIT Jan 2019 #5
((sinking feeling)) blm Jan 2019 #6
Saw it today. rogerashton Jan 2019 #7
I tell my kids about the things murielm99 Jan 2019 #8
Thank you for sharing... Ferrets are Cool Jan 2019 #9
Hope to see it soon, depending on weather here in DC. elleng Jan 2019 #10
I wept with grief, relief and pride. If she hadn't lived when she did, done what she did, ancianita Jan 2019 #11
And a good portion of the people Mr.Bill Jan 2019 #12
Amen. colorado_ufo Jan 2019 #13
My sons, who are 28 and 26, are incredulous that there were no... 3catwoman3 Jan 2019 #14
The most interesting thing to me was her coping with the varied styles of resistance she ancianita Jan 2019 #15
When I was a teen, mglamb Jan 2019 #16
I always made it a point to tell both my son and my daughter of what it was like. llmart Jan 2019 #17
Kick for visibility. love_katz Jan 2019 #18
I haven't seen it yet. I agree that every young person should watch this. Honeycombe8 Jan 2019 #19
Can't wait to see this movie Miigwech Jan 2019 #20
I took my sister to the movie this afternoon! Delmette2.0 Jan 2019 #21
I just watched RBG on CNN (again) BigmanPigman Jan 2019 #22
Me, too! Chalco Jan 2019 #23
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