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Amimnoch

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50. I hate that I feel that way, but I worry about the same.
Tue Mar 26, 2019, 09:29 AM
Mar 2019

Some responses are around most of America supports gay right now, but where are those people located? I don't want another "we won the popular vote, but lost the election" situation at all.

I've donated to Buttigieg. It makes me so happy I could cry that a gay man is a real contender in our primary, and is being taken seriously and supported. If you'd told me 20 years ago that this would be happening this soon, or even in my lifetime, I'd have laughed.

If it was just about anyone other that orange Pissolini in the Whitehouse, and just normal level Republican deplorableness.. I'd say let's go for it. I just think there's too much on the line. If we can get him impeached, and Pence in, alright, let's do it. We are barreling down a fascist road, and I'm not willing to risk it.

I'm sooooo willing to change my mind if someone can convince me that he has as good or better chance of flipping enough EC votes to hit 270, but based on the best information I've researched, I'm not confident at all.

My right to marry didn't come from the will of the people, it came from the Supreme court.. one that's now changed. The sole swing voter that help gain the right to marry is gone. Court challenges to gay marriage are already making their way up the circuits.

Looking at the map, and the main states that have to, in some combination, be flipped to get to 270:

Ohio - On December 10, 2003, the Ohio House of Representatives, by a 73–23 vote, passed Ohio's Defense of Marriage Act. On January 21, 2004, the Ohio State Senate passed the act, by an 18–15 vote. On February 6, 2004, Governor Bob Taft signed the bill into law. It wasn't until 2016 when Obergefell v. Hodges was decided by the SCOTUS that this was overturned. There was a PRRI poll done in 2017 that found that 61% of Ohioans supported same-sex marriage, while 33% opposed it and 6% were unsure. Does that mean they are willing to come out and vote in support of a great candidate that happens to be gay? A lifetime of experience doesn't leave me convinced.

Florida - In 2008 the voters themselves voted against gay marriage. The Florida Amendment 2, a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage and civil unions in the state. A 60% approval rate was required to adopt the amendment; 62% of voters voted in favor of discrimination. Now, Florida opinion polls have also evolved with the 2017 Public Religion Research Institute poll, sample size of 4,374 found 61% supported gay marriage, 30% opposed, 9% no opinion. Just as in Ohio, there's progress, but is it enough for Florida to elect an openly gay and married candidate?? I'm skeptical to say the least.

Pennsylvania - In 1996 the state house, senate, and governor signed Allan Egolf's amendment to ban the performance and recognition of same-sex marriage. In 2006 the state legislatures attempted a constitutional ban, but due to the difficulty in that states Constitutional procedures, (requires passing across 2 consecutive legislature terms) that one never made it. The law faced several failed court challenges. Gay marriage was likewise not legal until Obergefell v. Hodges was decided by the SCOTUS. The latest poll I was able to find for this state was a 2016 PRRI found 60% of Pennsylvania residents supported same sex marriage.

Really, when you drill down to it.. these states that are required in some combo to hit that 270 EC votes, were ready to elect the shitgibbon in the Whitehouse.. They proved that the electorate in those areas were willing to overlook every lie, and flaw of the shitgibbon while criticizing every relatively little thing about HRC (those emails were too much but "grab them by the pussy" is fiiiine..)

IMO.. too much is on the line to take this kind of chance on these required electorates making sensible, and rational decisions. None of these states are a "given" for any of our candidates, but there are candidates that will have a much more difficult road ahead to win over these states that are needed.





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Bookmarking. n/t rzemanfl Mar 2019 #1
He's mayor of South Bend, Indiana... Hard to get more middle America than that... hlthe2b Mar 2019 #2
But I wonder why he's not running statewide in Indiana then? BluegrassDem Mar 2019 #3
Because he's young, ambitious, strategic and ready to take a big gamble. marylandblue Mar 2019 #5
actually no it isn't dsc Mar 2019 #9
He ran for the DNC chair and in an unofficial poll here, I supported him. question everything Mar 2019 #13
He ran for State Treasurer and lost in 2010 Jarqui Mar 2019 #28
He got reelected to that as a gay man dsc Mar 2019 #4
Got re-elected with 80% of the vote crazytown Mar 2019 #8
reelected is easier dsc Mar 2019 #11
That information looks good. Blue_true Mar 2019 #29
That's what I though... SKKY Mar 2019 #48
Wow! This early! mobeau69 Mar 2019 #6
Honestly it is hard to know dsc Mar 2019 #7
Point 1: at this moment, 99.9% of voters have no idea he is. brooklynite Mar 2019 #10
Hey, he is polling 1% so he is doing much better than that :) marylandblue Mar 2019 #12
I said they don't know he is Gay... brooklynite Mar 2019 #25
Have they polled that question? If so, please post a link to that data. mobeau69 Mar 2019 #21
After Trump, I believe there is no disqualifying characteristic. marylandblue Mar 2019 #14
the voters are going to get to decide this dsc Mar 2019 #15
I think it's down to zero if the Republican is Trump. marylandblue Mar 2019 #17
I think 2016 shows us we can't count on that dsc Mar 2019 #20
2016 makes predictions for 2020 impossible. marylandblue Mar 2019 #30
The primary should shake that out. Blue_true Mar 2019 #32
but if they don't it isn't necessarily the gay issue dsc Mar 2019 #44
That's true. nt Blue_true Mar 2019 #69
it is not similar to obama in a very obvious way. think about, you'll get it nt msongs Mar 2019 #16
Similar does not mean exactly the same, and Trump is not McCain. marylandblue Mar 2019 #19
Millennials would hopefully come out in droves!! Control-Z Mar 2019 #18
I think handmade34 Mar 2019 #22
I think for 60% of the country it's fine. The other 40% weren't going to vote Dem anyway. Quixote1818 Mar 2019 #23
Exactly right. Blue_true Mar 2019 #33
Off subject, I think he is more impressive than Beto nt Quixote1818 Mar 2019 #24
By a mile. Hassin Bin Sober Mar 2019 #31
Yes. LuvNewcastle Mar 2019 #40
absolutely - n/t Locrian Mar 2019 #53
Interesting. Did not know he was gay and all the rest. dhol82 Mar 2019 #26
Let's see here, Buttigieg is a graduate of Harvard University, a Rhodes Scholar, and a veteran YOHABLO Mar 2019 #27
Actually, most people these days have a gay family member or friend who is gay Bettie Mar 2019 #35
Doesn't he also speak something like 6 languages fluently? Control-Z Mar 2019 #38
8 Celerity Mar 2019 #41
An interesting question to ask BannonsLiver Mar 2019 #34
Something will come up for each and every one of the candidates Bettie Mar 2019 #36
Of course BannonsLiver Mar 2019 #39
I am amazed by him Bettie Mar 2019 #43
This message was self-deleted by its author marylandblue Mar 2019 #49
Exactly. And I'm confident that Buttigieg will beat back the attack with sly humor. marylandblue Mar 2019 #51
You don't get through middle school Bettie Mar 2019 #56
Real elephant in the room is all the qualified women men toss aside jaceaf Mar 2019 #37
actually LGBT candidates have been an exception dsc Mar 2019 #46
Agreed. As long as it's not a woman leading them, Americans are happy. athena Mar 2019 #67
Are a lot of them JustAnotherGen Mar 2019 #42
My state is literally the middle of the continental United States Shrek Mar 2019 #45
Let's find out. left-of-center2012 Mar 2019 #47
I hate that I feel that way, but I worry about the same. Amimnoch Mar 2019 #50
ALL of our candidates have show stopping scandals in the background marylandblue Mar 2019 #55
1996, 2003, and even 2008 are ancient history when it comes to LGBTQ issues Celerity Mar 2019 #60
I have same concern. Too many people pnwest Mar 2019 #52
But did your mother lillypaddle Mar 2019 #54
Him being gay is not the problem. People will accept that or don't care. What is the problem patricia92243 Mar 2019 #57
That's right. Hillary was attacked as a lesbian child-molesting murderer. marylandblue Mar 2019 #61
I think it's a much bigger problem than most here are willing to admit, but he may well have LongtimeAZDem Mar 2019 #58
I think Trump got one thing right - if people like you, you can shoot someone on Fifth Avenue marylandblue Mar 2019 #59
Look at Colorado disenfranchised Mar 2019 #62
I also think a lot of people who hate gays will vote for a gay man anyway. marylandblue Mar 2019 #63
Yes, those are good points. disenfranchised Mar 2019 #65
I looked at 2010 vs 2018 in terms of governor dsc Mar 2019 #64
Good point. Colorado is a very white state. disenfranchised Mar 2019 #66
Colorado has changed a lot in the last 20 years BannonsLiver Mar 2019 #68
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