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H2O Man

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65. Thank you for this.

Reply to scheming daemons (Original post)

Fri Sep 21, 2018, 04:12 PM

Sep 2018

Recommended. Your openness and honesty are much appreciated.

At the same time, reading the truth you speak of makes me feel ill. I can relate to your feeling, at times, like seeking revenge.

I'm hoping for the best for you and your family.

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I am the father of a college student who was sexually assaulted in 2014 [View all] scheming daemons Sep 2018 OP

Thanks for sharing this difficult experience grantcart Sep 2018 #1

What an impact this piece.... busterbrown Sep 2018 #54

My parents (my daughters grandparents) do not know the whole story. scheming daemons Sep 2018 #55

Got It... Thanks for the piece. busterbrown Sep 2018 #58

Great letter. Zoonart Sep 2018 #2

She's not alone. Please let her know that. Solly Mack Sep 2018 #3

K & R. Thank you n/t OneGrassRoot Sep 2018 #4

Wow ismnotwasm Sep 2018 #5

This is a very important post malaise Sep 2018 #6

Thank you for your post. dalton99a Sep 2018 #7

Heartbreaking. fleur-de-lisa Sep 2018 #8

A horrible story so movingly told Tom Rinaldo Sep 2018 #9

Thank You for sharing this. Stuart G Sep 2018 #10

Thanks for sharing your very moving account. whathehell Sep 2018 #11

I'm So Sorry for What Your Daughter and Family Have Gone Through dlk Sep 2018 #12

I will say this.... scheming daemons Sep 2018 #13

She isn't the only one with scars from the incident Hav Sep 2018 #20

My daughter just graduated from college last April and I am so glad nothing like that world wide wally Sep 2018 #14

A sad story that shows that it is part of the culture Hav Sep 2018 #15

How awful for your daughter True Blue American Sep 2018 #16

I'm sure, somewhere, this piece of shit was bragging about the encounter scheming daemons Sep 2018 #19

You do whatever True Blue American Sep 2018 #25

The hardest thing for a rape victim to understand and embrace FakeNoose Sep 2018 #17

K&R for your wonderful family. nolabear Sep 2018 #18

I keep saying if those sanctimonious Republican senators --- and the Dotard -- Mad-in-Mo Sep 2018 #21

I honestly think Trump and those hateful old Republicans True Blue American Sep 2018 #28

I'm sorry for what your daughter and family are going through. LuckyCharms Sep 2018 #22

I'm sure my dad would have felt the same had I ever told him. Luz Sep 2018 #23

It is never too late to tell him. Trust me, he will give you unconditional love and it WILL help. scheming daemons Sep 2018 #27

Thank you for writing this. This is a terrible dark reality of our society, and by bringing it enough Sep 2018 #24

K&R redstatebluegirl Sep 2018 #26

Well said Dad and Mom usaf-vet Sep 2018 #29

Thank you-- JohnnyLib2 Sep 2018 #30

Your story is powerful mythology Sep 2018 #31

Thank you. scheming daemons Sep 2018 #34

That is the legacy of a rapist... brer cat Sep 2018 #84

Trump doesn't have a conscience, therefore he can not feel compassion. olegramps Sep 2018 #32

Your story mchill Sep 2018 #33

I think men never really "get it" until it happens to someone they love. scheming daemons Sep 2018 #35

Men should watch The Rape of Richard Beck IronLionZion Sep 2018 #56

Thank you G_j Sep 2018 #36

Thank you for sharing this very personal life episode... magicarpet Sep 2018 #37

All I can say is that if you ever find the asshole who did this to your daughter Stonepounder Sep 2018 #38

thank you for your story... I cry handmade34 Sep 2018 #39

Thank you for sharing your family's story.... Heartstrings Sep 2018 #40

I am so sorry for your brilliant shining daughter to have to go through this pioche4 Sep 2018 #41

Thank you for telling us your story. Silver Gaia Sep 2018 #42

What a horrible thing to go through for all of you marlakay Sep 2018 #43

The after effects of rape on victim and family . . . people Sep 2018 #44

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Welcome o the board True Blue American Sep 2018 #48

That letter is heart-wrenching NastyRiffraff Sep 2018 #46

Thank you for sharing your story... ButSeeYa Sep 2018 #47

I am so sorry to hear this steve2470 Sep 2018 #49

Thank you for sharing. Pacifist Patriot Sep 2018 #50

I am so sorry about what was done to your daughter get the red out Sep 2018 #51

I have a 7 yo daughter... I cant even begin to imagine your pain. Le Gaucher Sep 2018 #52

You and your wife sound like wonderful parents. greatauntoftriplets Sep 2018 #53

Thanks for sharing that is truly heartbreaking... Dem_4_Life Sep 2018 #57

I'm so sorry! But thank you for posting this! Adrahil Sep 2018 #59

I work at a large University Olafjoy Sep 2018 #60

I wonder if I may make a suggestion lunatica Sep 2018 #64

This is an excellent idea. Haggis for Breakfast Sep 2018 #83

Thank you for your post. scheming daemons Sep 2018 #66

Thank you for sharing with us cp Sep 2018 #61

I'm so sorry that happened to your daughter. MineralMan Sep 2018 #62

This shook me to the core lunatica Sep 2018 #63

Thank you for this. H2O Man Sep 2018 #65

This is heartbreaking. joshcryer Sep 2018 #67

I am so sorry. She is so young Ilsa Sep 2018 #68

May peace come to you and your family SallyHemmings Sep 2018 #69

(((hugs))) samnsara Sep 2018 #70

I cried reading that. Doreen Sep 2018 #71

I am so sorry for what happened to your daughter. smirkymonkey Sep 2018 #72

I am so sorry for the pain your daughter, you and your wife have had to endure. Squinch Sep 2018 #73

My heart breaks for your daughter, you and your wife! denvine Sep 2018 #74

My heart breaks for you and your family Niagara Sep 2018 #75

I am so sorry for what happened to your daughter, I wish I had more & better words for you.... FM123 Sep 2018 #76

I sincerely hope you and your family find peace. riversedge Sep 2018 #77

Thanks for your private story. I feel for your daughter and you and your wife. Honeycombe8 Sep 2018 #78

Thank you for sharing this with us stopwastingmymoney Sep 2018 #79

I read this almost an hour ago and my chest is still so squeezed it hurts. Hekate Sep 2018 #80

One of the most powerful essays I've read on this topic lostnfound Sep 2018 #81

Carl Jung said "show me where a man's biggest pain is today..." lostnfound Sep 2018 #82

... Cha Sep 2018 #85

Thank you for sharing your daughter's story, and for being there for her. VOX Sep 2018 #86

What is going to get her through this is that she has two parents who love her dearly. pnwmom Sep 2018 #87

I have great respect for you... Trueblue Texan Sep 2018 #88

As a father of a bright happy daughter JPPaverage Sep 2018 #89

This brought tears to my eyes. panader0 Sep 2018 #90

Happened to a close friend, though a bit different circumstances Bradical79 Sep 2018 #91

I refused to let my attempted LittleGirl Sep 2018 #92

What a powerful and important post. thucythucy Sep 2018 #93

I'm so sorry to hear this happened to your daughter Upthevibe Sep 2018 #94

Thanks for sharing. Your daughter wanting to move on is understandable. Blue_true Sep 2018 #95

I know exactly what you are talking about Joe Nation Sep 2018 #96