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Blue_true

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95. Thanks for sharing. Your daughter wanting to move on is understandable.

Reply to scheming daemons (Original post)

Sat Sep 22, 2018, 05:37 PM

Sep 2018

But the guy that raped her likely has or will rape other women that he can take advantage of. Even if she does not remember the apartment, either her or her former roommate remember the frat house. Surely she and her rapist would have passed some video cameras along the way to his place (bank ATMs, service stations, stores, ect). If those cameras have digital storage that download files to larger storage, maybe there is video of her and her rapist.

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I am the father of a college student who was sexually assaulted in 2014 [View all] scheming daemons Sep 2018 OP

Thanks for sharing this difficult experience grantcart Sep 2018 #1

What an impact this piece.... busterbrown Sep 2018 #54

My parents (my daughters grandparents) do not know the whole story. scheming daemons Sep 2018 #55

Got It... Thanks for the piece. busterbrown Sep 2018 #58

Great letter. Zoonart Sep 2018 #2

She's not alone. Please let her know that. Solly Mack Sep 2018 #3

K & R. Thank you n/t OneGrassRoot Sep 2018 #4

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A horrible story so movingly told Tom Rinaldo Sep 2018 #9

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Thanks for sharing your very moving account. whathehell Sep 2018 #11

I'm So Sorry for What Your Daughter and Family Have Gone Through dlk Sep 2018 #12

I will say this.... scheming daemons Sep 2018 #13

She isn't the only one with scars from the incident Hav Sep 2018 #20

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A sad story that shows that it is part of the culture Hav Sep 2018 #15

How awful for your daughter True Blue American Sep 2018 #16

I'm sure, somewhere, this piece of shit was bragging about the encounter scheming daemons Sep 2018 #19

You do whatever True Blue American Sep 2018 #25

The hardest thing for a rape victim to understand and embrace FakeNoose Sep 2018 #17

K&R for your wonderful family. nolabear Sep 2018 #18

I keep saying if those sanctimonious Republican senators --- and the Dotard -- Mad-in-Mo Sep 2018 #21

I honestly think Trump and those hateful old Republicans True Blue American Sep 2018 #28

I'm sorry for what your daughter and family are going through. LuckyCharms Sep 2018 #22

I'm sure my dad would have felt the same had I ever told him. Luz Sep 2018 #23

It is never too late to tell him. Trust me, he will give you unconditional love and it WILL help. scheming daemons Sep 2018 #27

Thank you for writing this. This is a terrible dark reality of our society, and by bringing it enough Sep 2018 #24

K&R redstatebluegirl Sep 2018 #26

Well said Dad and Mom usaf-vet Sep 2018 #29

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That is the legacy of a rapist... brer cat Sep 2018 #84

Trump doesn't have a conscience, therefore he can not feel compassion. olegramps Sep 2018 #32

Your story mchill Sep 2018 #33

I think men never really "get it" until it happens to someone they love. scheming daemons Sep 2018 #35

Men should watch The Rape of Richard Beck IronLionZion Sep 2018 #56

Thank you G_j Sep 2018 #36

Thank you for sharing this very personal life episode... magicarpet Sep 2018 #37

All I can say is that if you ever find the asshole who did this to your daughter Stonepounder Sep 2018 #38

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What a horrible thing to go through for all of you marlakay Sep 2018 #43

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That letter is heart-wrenching NastyRiffraff Sep 2018 #46

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Thank you for sharing. Pacifist Patriot Sep 2018 #50

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I have a 7 yo daughter... I cant even begin to imagine your pain. Le Gaucher Sep 2018 #52

You and your wife sound like wonderful parents. greatauntoftriplets Sep 2018 #53

Thanks for sharing that is truly heartbreaking... Dem_4_Life Sep 2018 #57

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I'm so sorry that happened to your daughter. MineralMan Sep 2018 #62

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I am so sorry. She is so young Ilsa Sep 2018 #68

May peace come to you and your family SallyHemmings Sep 2018 #69

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I cried reading that. Doreen Sep 2018 #71

I am so sorry for what happened to your daughter. smirkymonkey Sep 2018 #72

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My heart breaks for your daughter, you and your wife! denvine Sep 2018 #74

My heart breaks for you and your family Niagara Sep 2018 #75

I am so sorry for what happened to your daughter, I wish I had more & better words for you.... FM123 Sep 2018 #76

I sincerely hope you and your family find peace. riversedge Sep 2018 #77

Thanks for your private story. I feel for your daughter and you and your wife. Honeycombe8 Sep 2018 #78

Thank you for sharing this with us stopwastingmymoney Sep 2018 #79

I read this almost an hour ago and my chest is still so squeezed it hurts. Hekate Sep 2018 #80

One of the most powerful essays I've read on this topic lostnfound Sep 2018 #81

Carl Jung said "show me where a man's biggest pain is today..." lostnfound Sep 2018 #82

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Thank you for sharing your daughter's story, and for being there for her. VOX Sep 2018 #86

What is going to get her through this is that she has two parents who love her dearly. pnwmom Sep 2018 #87

I have great respect for you... Trueblue Texan Sep 2018 #88

As a father of a bright happy daughter JPPaverage Sep 2018 #89

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Happened to a close friend, though a bit different circumstances Bradical79 Sep 2018 #91

I refused to let my attempted LittleGirl Sep 2018 #92

What a powerful and important post. thucythucy Sep 2018 #93

I'm so sorry to hear this happened to your daughter Upthevibe Sep 2018 #94

Thanks for sharing. Your daughter wanting to move on is understandable. Blue_true Sep 2018 #95

I know exactly what you are talking about Joe Nation Sep 2018 #96