We Used to Say That It Didn't Matter

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6. When a person, or a society,

is learning to grow and expand their horizons to learn how best to approach - well, people who don't think they need to learn anything because they know it all - we come up with phrases which help us but which more time and more learning shows that they are - maybe not wrong, but inadequate.

In my journey, for instance, I have used and then come past the term "color blind." I'm not where I need to be, but I am still working in that direction.

As parents - you done good. "It doesn't matter" was clearly what was needed st the time. Bless you for now wanting to come even further.