In the discussion thread: My capacity for empathy has become selective [View all]
Response to Cyrano (Original post)
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 09:55 AM
Laelth (32,014 posts)
52. My empathy is extraverted, selfish, and inherent.
I feel both the joy and the pain of every being that I encounter. I can’t help it. It’s an inherent feature of my being, and it is getting stronger as I get older.
I am a healer who wants to ease the pain of the world. I can not stop feeling the pain of others, so I want to make the pain of others go away. My motive is selfish. I prefer to ease the pain of others because I don’t want to feel their pain myself, as I nearly always do. I can’t help it. For a highly empathic person, empathy can’t be abandoned or lost. It is both a blessing and a curse that one merely learns to live with. ![]() -Laelth |
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