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In reply to the discussion: Can someone help me understand my wing nut friends? [View all]Swede Atlanta
(3,596 posts)28. I'm going to be visiting an Aunt and Uncle in the next couple of weeks......
They are very conservative, not total nutcases, but conservative. Interesting enough her 57 year old son, an alcoholic, tried to kill himself and is on Medicaid. She and her husband live almost exclusively on Social Security and rely on Medicare for their health care.
So when she decries social programs I have to remind her of her dependence on these programs.
But I have already told her that we will not discuss politics over the weekend we are visiting. We will not turn on Fox News. We will confine ourselves to spending time together, doing some genealogy, etc. but let's keep politics our of our discussions.
In the past we have had several times when we took a long hiatus from any communication because of political differences.
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If you think that's weird wait until you meet the contingent of pro-Obama folks
Nuclear Unicorn
Sep 2012
#1
Your option to remain friends. Depends upon if your position bothers *them*.
no_hypocrisy
Sep 2012
#5
They may be afraid of change - fear that it is not for the better..
socialindependocrat
Sep 2012
#26
I'd stay friends but every once in a while to maintain sanity and because you might make
treestar
Sep 2012
#20
Just tell them you cannot be friends with bigots who have hate in their heart.
Ian David
Sep 2012
#27
I'm going to be visiting an Aunt and Uncle in the next couple of weeks......
Swede Atlanta
Sep 2012
#28
How can we expect those folks to be normal after watching Fox day after day?
marions ghost
Sep 2012
#39
Can you be with them an not discuss politics? I worked with a woman like that for many years.
jillan
Sep 2012
#46
Personally, I couldn't do it, but it sounds like you have more tolerance for that sort of stuff.
Arugula Latte
Sep 2012
#47
If you like bigoted people and think that's 'truly nice' then don't know what to tell you.
Bluenorthwest
Sep 2012
#54
I can't look at Drudge/Fox, but I do read the WSJ - it is maddening, but I do it.
reformist2
Sep 2012
#68
The WSJ is turning hard right, but the good news is their arguments are more pathetic than ever.
reformist2
Sep 2012
#70