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JudyM

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87. Oh no, so sorry to hear this, Laura.

Reply to Laura PourMeADrink (Original post)

Mon May 11, 2020, 04:05 PM

May 2020

You were all trying to do the best for him. The system and this virus suck so bad. Terrible situation for your family, so sorry. Wishing you all whatever possible comfort through this.

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My dad is near death with COVID. He is on oxygen & morphine [View all] Laura PourMeADrink May 2020 OP

So sorry to hear this Laura! mr_lebowski May 2020 #1

This is too sad malaise May 2020 #2

What is happening to seniors and us vets is this -- Haggis for Breakfast May 2020 #103

I'm so terribly sorry for you and your family. sinkingfeeling May 2020 #3

I'm so sorry, just heartbreaking. pnwest May 2020 #4

I'm so very sorry. LuckyCharms May 2020 #5

Absolutely heartbreaking Mike 03 May 2020 #6

So So sorry! bluestarone May 2020 #7

I'm sorry. Ellipsis May 2020 #8

All my sympathy. nancy1942 May 2020 #9

This is heartbreaking The Blue Flower May 2020 #10

I'm so sorry Laura PourMeADrink LeftInTX May 2020 #11

Oh honey. This is all so hard to bear. I'm sorry. nolabear May 2020 #12

I'm very sorry 2golddogs May 2020 #13

I'm so sorry, L PMAD. Solly Mack May 2020 #14

I am deeply sorry for your family's pain. NoRoadUntravelled May 2020 #15

I am sorry shenmue May 2020 #16

I can say nothing other than that my heart aches for you as I know the pain you are suffering. Atticus May 2020 #17

Oh geez. I'm so sorry. LakeArenal May 2020 #18

Heartbreaking, omg, I am sorry peacebuzzard May 2020 #19

I am so sad to hear this DonaldsRump May 2020 #20

I am so sorry Ohiogal May 2020 #21

Peace be with you and your family. PufPuf23 May 2020 #22

So true kimbutgar May 2020 #23

OMG Laura! I'm so sorry to hear this. BComplex May 2020 #24

I'm very sorry for what has befallen your family dlk May 2020 #25

Oh Laura, I am so sorry for your pain. PA Democrat May 2020 #26

.. KentuckyWoman May 2020 #27

Heartbreaking to hear! I am so sorry! Different Drummer May 2020 #28

I am so sorry DesertRat May 2020 #29

I am so very sorry. cate94 May 2020 #30

May your grief give way to loving memories. Harker May 2020 #31

You are not at fault. Be at peace. You did & are doing what you can. The rest is out of your hands. Bernardo de La Paz May 2020 #32

I'm so sorry. SunSeeker May 2020 #33

Oh, I'm so very sorry! catbyte May 2020 #34

I'm so sorry you are going through what you are Jarqui May 2020 #35

So sad not to be able to be there..... spanone May 2020 #36

. Alex4Martinez May 2020 #37

If you aren't able to get there - Ms. Toad May 2020 #38

I'm so sorry this is happening Warpy May 2020 #39

I'm so sorry, L PMAD. Hugin May 2020 #40

I am so, so sorry. crickets May 2020 #41

Very sorry for your family's pain and loss now. appalachiablue May 2020 #42

My heart aches for you. That is not the way we want to let our loved ones pass on. appleannie1 May 2020 #43

Damn. That's a rough thing to bear. I'm sorry for your situation. panader0 May 2020 #44

I wish you and so many others were not going through this agony with their elderly parents. Fla Dem May 2020 #45

I am so sorry pandr32 May 2020 #46

I don't know you... orwell May 2020 #47

Oh, how sad and distressing for you and your parents. I wish there was Tanuki May 2020 #48

so very very sorry diva77 May 2020 #49

This is just shameful Rorey May 2020 #50

I can't think of any words that would be truly helpful. All I can offer is my deepest sympathy and scarletwoman May 2020 #51

Hugs Laura flamingdem May 2020 #52

The National Guard has been called into a nursing home in our area. appleannie1 May 2020 #53

My heart goes out to you and your family democrank May 2020 #54

My sympathy, so sorry Submariner May 2020 #55

So, so sorry.... Heartstrings May 2020 #56

Oh Laura, I'm so very sorry mcar May 2020 #57

Sorry to hear about your Dad, Laura. kentuck May 2020 #58

I'm so sorry to hear this Sympthsical May 2020 #59

I'm so sorry to read this.. mountain grammy May 2020 #60

Laura . . I am terribly sorry that you find yourself in this most difficult situation. OldManTarHeel May 2020 #61

The arms of your DU family are around you and your mom. Totally Tunsie May 2020 #62

So very sorry, Laura. If there is anything we can do to help, we are here. niyad May 2020 #63

I am so so so sorry- sending all of you Tumbulu May 2020 #64

I am so very sorry, Laura. I too am wondering if I can get cross country if need be... hlthe2b May 2020 #65

So very very sorry for the plight of the man and the family. PCIntern May 2020 #66

my sincere condolences. Roc2020 May 2020 #67

Heart is breaking for your family superpatriotman May 2020 #68

I'm so sorry. MelissaB May 2020 #69

I'm sorry seta1950 May 2020 #70

My dad was a carrier pilot in the S Pacific in WWII. ananda May 2020 #71

I'm so sorry! 🙏🏽 Nt helpisontheway May 2020 #72

I'm sorry. Best wishes. JDC May 2020 #73

I'm so sorry democrattotheend May 2020 #74

oh my bdamomma May 2020 #75

I'm so sorry... CaptainTruth May 2020 #76

My heart goes out to you Laura. And you're right, you dad didn't deserve this type of end. 🙏 iluvtennis May 2020 #77

I'm so sorry, Laura. Your political message is what I've Hortensis May 2020 #78

He and all the others deserve so much better than this. Ilsa May 2020 #79

Oh, I Am So Very Sorry DarthDem May 2020 #80

Oh my, I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you. cayugafalls May 2020 #81

Gosh, I'm sorry. For yourself, family, friends and of course your dad. yonder May 2020 #82

Laura, I am so very saddened ot hear that. You and dad and family are in my thoughts. marble falls May 2020 #83

So very sorry, Laura PourMeADrink gademocrat7 May 2020 #84

I'm so sorry. happy feet May 2020 #85

Please don't feel guilty. You did the best you could. aikoaiko May 2020 #86

Oh no, so sorry to hear this, Laura. JudyM May 2020 #87

Sorry to hear this. Jim__ May 2020 #88

Heartwrenching! Not to be mean, but I've seen three relatives with dementia pass away and Karadeniz May 2020 #89

... Solomon May 2020 #90

So sorry to hear bucolic_frolic May 2020 #91

I'm so sorry StarfishSaver May 2020 #92

Don't blame yourself. We were in the same situation and my mother-n-law had to go into a facility. Doodley May 2020 #93

My sympathy! mfcorey1 May 2020 #94

I'm so sorry, Butterflylady May 2020 #95

I am so sorry for you and your parents, Laura. Reading your post was just heartbreaking and smirkymonkey May 2020 #96

This is heartbreaking. lunatica May 2020 #97

Heartbreaking. 3auld6phart May 2020 #98

I'm so sorry, Laura Niagara May 2020 #99

My heart goes out to you Laura DENVERPOPS May 2020 #100

I am so sorry dflprincess May 2020 #101

Hang in the there. SergeStorms May 2020 #102

I am so very sorry. Silver Gaia May 2020 #104

So sorry for you having to bear such grief and sadness. Bless you. Ninga May 2020 #105

I am so sorry for all of you. Your post should be on every air wave. This is America right now. Evolve Dammit May 2020 #106

You're carrying a heavy load.. Permanut May 2020 #107

Sending love and support. volstork May 2020 #108

So sorry💜 MFM008 May 2020 #109

I kept my mom home knowing she was going to die. She had lung cancer. boston bean May 2020 #110

So very sorry for you and your family. Prayers. n/t monmouth4 May 2020 #111

I found your plea to "as Democrats" very telling. No one expects the (r)epuglicons erronis May 2020 #112

I am so sorry barbtries May 2020 #113

I'm so sorry. Mickju May 2020 #114

I am so sorry to hear this Soph0571 May 2020 #115

Dang it!! sagetea May 2020 #116

So sorry to hear this! SheltieLover May 2020 #117

My heart goes out to you mercuryblues May 2020 #118

So sorry. ❤ nt littlemissmartypants May 2020 #119

I'm sorry that this is happening to your father. TexasTowelie May 2020 #120

How terrible for you all. So heartbreaking. flying_wahini May 2020 #121

What can anyone say to ease your trauma ... Miigwech May 2020 #122

I am sincerely sorry to hear that. warmfeet May 2020 #123

So sorry you and your family are suffering liberal N proud May 2020 #124

So sorry you and your family are going through this. seaglass May 2020 #125

Terribly sorry to hear about your father tishaLA May 2020 #126

Virtual hugs and prayers heading your way. pazzyanne May 2020 #127

I too, am very sorry. TNNurse May 2020 #128

Hugs. So sorry, Laura cilla4progress May 2020 #129

I fear all too many of us will go through what your family is suffering now. denbot May 2020 #130

So sad for you having to go through this. BlancheSplanchnik May 2020 #131

Dear LPMAD - Hundreds of Hugs (Virtual). calimary May 2020 #132

So very sorry for you and your mother. And the tragedy of not being close is cruel. Texin May 2020 #133

I'm so sorry. SammyWinstonJack May 2020 #134

Peace and strength to you and family Laura. kairos12 May 2020 #135

I am so very sorry demtenjeep May 2020 #136

Oh, I'm so, so sorry. femmedem May 2020 #137

I am so very sorry for your situation hamsterjill May 2020 #138

So sorry to hear this awful news. ecstatic May 2020 #139

I am so sorry cally May 2020 #140

Sending love. Blue_playwright May 2020 #141

(hugs) my moms in a nursing home too :( TalenaGor May 2020 #142

I am so sorry. leighbythesea2 May 2020 #143

K&R. I am so sorry you are going through this. My heart breaks for your mother. nt tblue37 May 2020 #144

Best wishes to your family grantcart May 2020 #145

I'm so sorry, Laura. Prayers for him, and you and your mom, and all your family. highplainsdem May 2020 #146

I'm so very sorry. yardwork May 2020 #147

I'm sorry for your Dad FakeNoose May 2020 #148

I am so sorry, Laura. StevieM May 2020 #149

So sorry your family is going through this pertello May 2020 #150

😿 I am so sorry Meowmee May 2020 #151

.. Demovictory9 May 2020 #152

I am so sorry, Laura. EllieBC May 2020 #153

So sorry to hear, one of the Greatest Generation, your poor mom, I feel for you two. Demonaut May 2020 #154

I'm so sorry voteearlyvoteoften May 2020 #155

I am so sad and frustrated for your and your BigmanPigman May 2020 #156

Don't take guilt onto yourself -- you didn't create this situation. Hermit-The-Prog May 2020 #157

I'm so sorry. The absolute horror going on in our nursing homes, assisted care, long MerryBlooms May 2020 #158

You didn't do anything wrong. EndlessWire May 2020 #159

I'm sorry MustLoveBeagles May 2020 #160

Laura, like everybody else my heart is breaking for you spiderpig May 2020 #161

So very sorry. Enoki33 May 2020 #162

I'm so sorry for you and your family. 58Sunliner May 2020 #163

My heart breaks for what you're enduring. herding cats May 2020 #164

I'm so very mzmolly May 2020 #165

May you and your family find peace. riversedge May 2020 #166

Sorry to hear this. R B Garr May 2020 #167

So sorry Laura...that is terrible. Demsrule86 May 2020 #168

25,000 of the dead are from nursing homes. onecaliberal May 2020 #169

I am so very sorry, Laura. sheshe2 May 2020 #170

My heart aches for you and your family Danmel May 2020 #171

So sorry! Buckeye_Democrat May 2020 #172

I am so so sorry Peacetrain May 2020 #173

Holding you and your family in my heart tonight chia May 2020 #174

All of my sympathies for you abbeyco May 2020 #175

I wish you, your dad and your family peace and comfort and strength. BusyBeingBest May 2020 #176

I am so sorry tosh May 2020 #177

Hearts to you all. jeffreyi May 2020 #178

So, so sorry to hear this. ucrdem May 2020 #179

My heart goes out to you and your family. bobGandolf May 2020 #180

My dad was a South Pacific vet. They could have known ooky May 2020 #181

Just saw this. Wish there was something I could do. What a tragedy! DFW May 2020 #182

I'm so sorry 💔 Raine May 2020 #183

So sorry for your loss. I hope Trump pays for this tragedy. scrabblequeen40 May 2020 #184

Gomen nasai... yuiyoshida May 2020 #185

I'm so sorry. brer cat May 2020 #186

Tears to you, Laura... N_E_1 for Tennis May 2020 #187

So very sorry Highway61 May 2020 #188

My heart goes out to you and your family. Sunlei May 2020 #189

OMG. That is so sad. honest.abe May 2020 #190

God be with you all. roamer65 May 2020 #191

We do the best we can deek May 2020 #192

I'm very sorry Cetacea May 2020 #193

Prayers sent to all benld74 May 2020 #194