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obamanut2012

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19. Report her to the court NOW

Reply to Liberal In Red State (Original post)

Tue May 26, 2020, 07:27 AM

May 2020

As in TODAY. If you can afford an attorney, have them do it ASAP. They will remove her.

That IRA is 1--% your husband's, she has zero control over it.

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On Memorial Day?!? I just have to tell what happened today. I'm screaming inside! [View all] Liberal In Red State May 2020 OP

I would strongly suggest your husband hire a lawyer. As executor, she should have certain laws to Frustratedlady May 2020 #1

Definitely get a lawyer Dan May 2020 #3

Right. elleng May 2020 #4

Thanks - we are looking into an attorney tomorrow. She is mad because my husband. . . Liberal In Red State May 2020 #7

The plot thickens... Definitely get an estate lawyer. You haven't mentioned how big... TreasonousBastard May 2020 #10

THIS. Get an estate lawyer IMMEDIATELY. She is setting up your husband to rob him, and Nay May 2020 #22

Sister meanie Beakybird May 2020 #2

Transfer on Death means that exactly, elleng May 2020 #5

What a (insert expletive here). sakabatou May 2020 #6

Get a lawyer. And buy the flag for $200. You need a professional to protect your interests. Midnight Writer May 2020 #8

I have been an executor. Big Blue Marble May 2020 #9

Damn, money really can break up families. I was the executor for my mother prevented that. TheBlackAdder May 2020 #14

If she doesn't behave a Probate Court can remove her for Executor Misconduct. roamer65 May 2020 #11

Document everything. Mariana May 2020 #12

We are pulling together all emails and text messages for a chronological account. She has said Liberal In Red State May 2020 #13

If you can afford one, get a good probate/wills & estates lawyer DonaldsRump May 2020 #15

it's not that unusual Nature Man May 2020 #16

Having been an executor for a large estate, there are legal rules sinkingfeeling May 2020 #17

My mother and her Sister haven't spoken for 10 years over settlement of their father's estate brooklynite May 2020 #18

Report her to the court NOW obamanut2012 May 2020 #19

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. AirmensMom May 2020 #20

I'm so sorry you & your husband are having to deal with this... dixiechiken1 May 2020 #21

Should have secured an attorney the instant she started 2naSalit May 2020 #23

I think it's very unseemly for a family to be fighting over a deceased loved one's assets. totodeinhere May 2020 #24

Sorry your family is going through this trauma. MoonRiver May 2020 #25

My father's flag is in a fine triangular wooden box on my bookshelf. panader0 May 2020 #26