These are really hard times for some older people.

[Frustratedlady]

1. Yes it is scary. It helps if they can get into a project.

Since we are pretty well closed off from society, we almost have to get something going like going through old photos and writing a note on the back as to date, occasion, age of children, etc. Not only will this help family members when you are gone, but it brings back a lot of memories. Working on family history is another project that is beyond valuable. Personal stories about ancestors make the history more interesting and you can find so much online to help with dates, names and places.

Joining a system like Ancestry is also a help. Once you start entering data, they might be able to tag onto someone else's family history that will fill in holes in yours. Your children may not be that interested in it now, but they will certainly appreciate your efforts in later life. It is also a good source for health issues children and grandchildren may run into.

Learning to cook new dishes or bake bread, desserts, etc., can also take your mind off the pandemic and other issues. Sharing your new dishes will perk up friends and family members.

There are so many projects that can help. As an elderly woman myself, I have self-quarantined (on my 19th week) and feel fortunate that I have avoided the dreaded virus, so far. It would be a death sentence for me. That gives me the gumption to achieve my goal of staying alive, even if I have to talk to myself to have a conversation.