Bride-to-be just had to have a bridal shower. One person showed up not wearing a mask.

[Ms. Toad]

6. The problem is that my spouse is going to attend.

She has declared that I am "paranoid." That came after we had made it clear between us that all visitors were to remain outside - then she had the second visitor in for more than an hour. I was told not to worry becuase the visitor was "as paranoid as you were," and that she wore her mask the entire time she was here - including outside. Somehow she just doesn't get it that it isn't their behavior while on our property that is at issue - it is their behavior in the entire 14 days preceding the visit - AND - the behavior of everyone they came into contact with during that time.

And, no, it is not paranoid. It is common sense safety precautions.

(She has diagnosed executive function deficiency - so I get it, but it means I am at more risk than I would otherwise be because I can't control her behavior when she's in my presence (let alone when she is outside of it). I'm as sure as I can be that she will take her mask off to eat and then just not put it back on.)