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In reply to the discussion: Bride-to-be just had to have a bridal shower. One person showed up not wearing a mask. [View all]Ms. Toad
(38,890 posts)29. We've pretty much decided to cancel our in-person open house for the holidays.
This year would be (would have been) our 40th. Between 30 and 50 people show up every year - hanging out in 4 rooms in our house - the main events are making ornaments for our tree, grazing (food), and sitting in little clusters chatting. So masks aren't practical. Friends and family come from a half-dozen different communities, so most of them don't see each other except at our annual party - which makes it both sad, and more dangerous (since it it is multiple new communities of exposure to each other - sort of the anti-pod theory).
So we're trying to figure out how to do a virtual party - or a series of small visits. Not sure yet. But it's sad.
But my inlaws are the same as yours. Ugh.
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Bride-to-be just had to have a bridal shower. One person showed up not wearing a mask. [View all]
eppur_se_muova
Jul 2020
OP
Hopefully, the one without mask didn't have an infectious smile and a contagious laugh.
Beakybird
Jul 2020
#1
Don't even think about going. Send her a nice gift along with your regrets.
The Velveteen Ocelot
Jul 2020
#5
You are not paranoid, you are being thoughtful. Your spouse is not using good judgment here IMO.
StevieM
Jul 2020
#14
You can find out after the event but if she ends up taking her mask off and others do the same
Maraya1969
Jul 2020
#18
We've pretty much decided to cancel our in-person open house for the holidays.
Ms. Toad
Jul 2020
#29
That's the way I'd do it, but then I wouldn't want a church wedding in the first place ...
eppur_se_muova
Jul 2020
#39
Yes, I can understand wanting to make it legal but couldn't they just hold off on the celebrations
JI7
Jul 2020
#35
Tell your spouse fine, she can go, but she'll need to self-quarantine
PoindexterOglethorpe
Jul 2020
#26