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Totally Tunsie

(10,885 posts)
23. My youngest son and his family moved to Sweden this summer
Sat Sep 12, 2020, 05:03 PM
Sep 2020

for his job promotion. At this point, I'm not sure if we'll ever be together again, which breaks my heart. His company will pay for the family to return to the U.S. for a couple of visits per year, but my grands are at an age - 10 and 14 - where travel around Europe will be a fun, stimulating, and educational benefit that can't be replicated. I'm encouraging them to "see the world" as a family while they can, and not to be tied to the thought of having to return to the U.S. during their vacation weeks. They've already experienced so much that is new and exciting to them, and I hope they take advantage of every opportunity that comes their way. Christmas is already booked for their stay at an ice hotel and a skimobile tour in the north of the country.

It's difficult and dangerous enough to even visit with my relatively local family for the time being. My son here is working from home, and my older grands are remote learning for all their classes at the moment. We've interacted in person very rarely, opting instead for phonecalls and Facetime. I'm accustomed to living alone, however I'm beginning to feel the "isolation" aspect of it more lately, but I'm also in a high-risk category where COVID could easily "be the death of me". Sometimes the choices are made for you.

tRump knew.

My son came out to visit on Labor Day. murielm99 Sep 2020 #1
Exactly, I just told my son who is 60 miles away on election day or the day after we Eliot Rosewater Sep 2020 #2
Maybe have them visit you outside the home through the glass window Claustrum Sep 2020 #3
I don't want my son out here after election day, either. murielm99 Sep 2020 #7
My son and his family live in Maine... Freedomofspeech Sep 2020 #4
I am broken hearted and I am ANGRY! hamsterjill Sep 2020 #5
Yeah. I'll be pissed for the rest of my life. ismnotwasm Sep 2020 #6
Are you this angry at the Republicans who voted for him? Mariana Sep 2020 #8
Repubs are a GIVEN they would FALL for LIES about our candidate and worse REPEAT them Eliot Rosewater Sep 2020 #9
My stepmother, nearly 90, is near death. I won't see her again. nolabear Sep 2020 #10
My condolences...nobody should have to live like this... Eliot Rosewater Sep 2020 #16
Thanks. You're right. I hope it increases our compassion. nolabear Sep 2020 #21
My sis has Stage 4 cancer and lives in Canada. I feel your pain. flying_wahini Sep 2020 #11
Very sorry to hear this. Yes, traitor and his party, all 45 million of them are DIRECTLY guilty Eliot Rosewater Sep 2020 #17
It's likely that I will never see my dad again even though he lives less littlemissmartypants Sep 2020 #12
I am so sorry. I remember the night my dad died, the nurse in the care home asked if she Eliot Rosewater Sep 2020 #18
That's painful, and I feel for you. Totally Tunsie Sep 2020 #26
I understand what you are saying EndlessWire Sep 2020 #27
Thanks Eliot Rosewater Sep 2020 #28
I see my son MFM008 Sep 2020 #13
I am glad you decided to do this, I may have to do something soon. Eliot Rosewater Sep 2020 #19
Adam Shiff speaknow Sep 2020 #14
i live in a red area. many voted for obama. but not this time around AllaN01Bear Sep 2020 #15
Sick ,twisted and unimaginable. All because of their deep deep hatred of POC and Women. Eliot Rosewater Sep 2020 #20
Exactly MLAA Sep 2020 #24
10,000 a day may die in December I heard. I have my first Grandchild due in Demsrule86 Sep 2020 #22
Where are you "hearing" this? former9thward Sep 2020 #29
Winter is coming and we are expected to have over 400,000 dead by Demsrule86 Sep 2020 #30
The first link says "page not found" former9thward Sep 2020 #31
My youngest son and his family moved to Sweden this summer Totally Tunsie Sep 2020 #23
Yep...we better get justice Eliot Rosewater Sep 2020 #25
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